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			<video:title><![CDATA[50 Reasons to Act More Like a Happily Divorced Man (even if you're still married)]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this video I discuss the first two aspects of a happily divorced man that change how he is BEING and have the potential to revolutionise the way his wife...]]></video:description>
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			<video:publication_date>2022-07-25T19:00:13+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Does your wife want space? How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown??? How do you t...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Is Your Wife Thinking About Divorcing You?]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your marriage heading towards divorce? How can you tell? Are there any signs to look out for? I know you can feel when things are struggling, less connect...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Wants A Divorce? How To Save Your Family]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-09-13T13:54:36+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife wants a divorce but you don't, you want to save your marriage but you're unsure what to do or how to respond. In this episode I explain the counter...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>185</video:duration>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Happily Divorced Men Hang Around Better People (and you should too)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2016-04-24T01:55:38+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When your relationship is having difficulties, the natural thing to want to try and do is to fix it but how can you when everything you do appears to be wron...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>187</video:duration>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know If You Should Get divorced Or Stay Married]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2023-04-29T13:32:08+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I speak to many men asking themselves how they can know if they should get divorced or stay married. They tell me stories about their relationship and what t...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Wants A Divorce?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-08-11T05:47:40+00:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[50 Reasons to Act More Like a Happily Divorced Man (even if you're still married)]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this video I discuss the first two aspects of a happily divorced man that change how he is BEING and have the potential to revolutionise the way his wife...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Does Your Wife Want Space Or A Divorce?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-07-25T19:00:13+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Does your wife want space? How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown??? How do you t...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Feeling Stuck, Rejected and Disconnected?  (You might have forgotten this)]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you feeling isolated, lonely, disconnected and rejected by your wife? Are you also struggling to get the support you need? I've been exactly where you're...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Is Your Wife Thinking About Divorcing You?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-12-21T03:42:57+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How do you know if your wife is thinking about divorcing you? Are there signs that can help you be prepared? How do you avoid the worst thing happening and h...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Is Your Marriage Heading Towards Divorce?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2023-03-09T22:20:59+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your marriage heading towards divorce? How can you tell? Are there any signs to look out for? I know you can feel when things are struggling, less connect...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Wants A Divorce? How To Save Your Family]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-09-13T13:54:36+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife wants a divorce but you don't, you want to save your marriage but you're unsure what to do or how to respond. In this episode I explain the counter...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>185</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Know if You'll Be Happier if You Divorce]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-06-10T01:45:54+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you wondering whether you should divorce? Are you unhappy in your marriage? Do you feel like she's always pissed at you? You're walking on eggshells wond...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Calm Your Anxiety About Your Pending Divorce]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2023-01-08T02:50:04+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Searching for information on how to calm your anxiety about your pending divorce? It's one of the most difficult, emotionally crippling events that can happe...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Defuse the Ticking Divorce Bomb]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-08-25T03:34:33+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Here is the link to the information page and sample course videos for Modules 1 through 4. https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com If you have concerns or ques...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Avoid Divorce - Your Dad Should Have Told You]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2023-03-04T17:44:18+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you in a struggling marriage trying to avoid divorce or facing a period of separation from your wife? Are you feeling incredibly anxious and scared of wh...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Handle Your Wife’s Threat of Divorce]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-09-17T05:14:16+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Has your wife mentioned divorce or made a threat of divorce recently? Maybe she's saying she needs space or is she talking about wanting to separate? This ep...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>431</video:duration>
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			<video:publication_date>2025-05-02T04:29:11-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Respond When Your Wife Says You're Being Needy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about a common challenge we get from men around this and why we coach a little differently than most therapists and coaches do around this topic.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Recover From Relationship Trauma And Pain | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[It was the paralyzing reality that I had absolutely no control in stopping the avalanche of fear, rejection and uncertainty that was about to wipe me off the face of the planet.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Taking Your Wife's Reactions Personally | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Every single man knows what I'm talking about. We learn it early in life...around 4th grade or so. It's the introduction to the power of female rejection, disapproval or disgust.]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Writers are taught to always have an irresistible headline. Make your reader WANT to read more. Make them curious. Make them mad. Make them desperate to find out the solution you offer.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Fix Your Unhappy Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[There’s a common pitfall many men plunge into when they are feeling stuck in an unhappy marriage. I see many of my clients making this mistake without even knowing it.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[The Only Thing That Works To Stop The Pain Of A Failing Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-01T17:00:15-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I remember how alone I felt when I heard the words. "I just don't feel in love or attracted to you anymore. I'm not sure we ever had that kind of connection."]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Help Your Wife Be Enthusiastic About Sex Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-21T17:00:59-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There’s another way to think about what you think about rejection. If you change this you will make major improvements in your relationship.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Become a More Attractive Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you want to learn How to Become a More Attractive Man? In this article &amp; video I discuss a simple shift in perspective to radically change your confidence..]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Only Two Things That Can Change A Sucky Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-talking-to-other-men-can-make-you-more-attractive-to-your-wife-and-other-women/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Talking to Other Men Can Make You More Attractive to Your Wife (and Other Women) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-11-04T03:50:08-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I recently took a trip back east to my old stomping grounds to spend time with two very good, old friends. We stayed on my buddy's huge boat near Ocean City, MD. It was to be a "boys weekend" just to relax and chill.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-just-told-me-its-over-what-can-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Just Told Me It's Over, What Can I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-06-24T16:06:24-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife wants space, she feels no connection or she loves you but isn't "in love" with you. What do you do next..?]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-just-said-she-wants-a-divorce-and-now-i-cant-think/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Just Said She Wants A Divorce, And Now I Can't Think | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-09-11T04:47:29-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If your wife just said she wants a divorce, the first thing most of us do is freak out - it's totally normal, but it's also the worst thing you can do...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife wants to divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-do-i-stop-being-scared-of-getting-divorced/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Do I Stop Being Scared Of Getting Divorced? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-03-19T16:01:15-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you want to stop being scared of getting divorced here's some great advice to help you immediately stop those anxious, fearful feelings taking over again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/gh_W1c1i1vs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Husband-Scared-Of-Divorce-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/survive-divorce-and-feel-good-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Survive Divorce And Feel Good About Yourself Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-12-11T00:43:39-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[To survive divorce and feel good about yourself again requires a new understanding of your feelings and what this period in your life has to teach you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/BGS_4osWetk</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-do-you-handle-an-unhappy-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Do You Handle An Unhappy Wife? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-04-21T16:44:09-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Many men we speak desperately try to avoid "drama" and struggle to handle an unhappy wife. They try to follow orders and make everyone happy but it doesn't work]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-rebuild-attraction-with-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Rebuild Attraction With Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-04-21T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Providing support to men who want to rebuild attraction with their wife. Advice to help you be confident in yourself &amp; create the relationship you really want]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/VsKVBriFFPo</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[desire on long-term relationships]]></video:tag>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/sinking-into-depression-because-of-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Sinking Into Depression Because Of Your Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-01-26T00:00:34-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you sinking into depression because of your marriage? The darkness &amp; despair feel like they will swallow your happiness forever, but there is hope...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Doomed-Marriage-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce anxiety]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[knowing your worth as a man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage help for men]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[steps to improve marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[what to do with unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-handle-your-runaway-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Handle Your Runaway Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-10-10T03:53:56-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your wife or partner acting strangely? Is she asking for more time and space, spending time away from you much more lately? Find out what it all means..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/H8l3eFviMac</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Depositphotos_29454967_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife wants to divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-1-rule-for-creating-intimate-connections-new-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The #1 Rule for Creating Intimate Connections | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-17T17:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's a perfectly calm, cool, crisp, gorgeous Colorado morning with the horses. I wish I could share it...and a cup of coffee with you.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/OsOR6xxOZgk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-1-Rule-for-Creating-Intimate-Connections.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/giving-gifts-when-separated-from-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Giving Gifts When Separated From Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-06-26T15:28:30-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Should you give gifts when separated from your wife? It's a confusing subject &amp; one that men in our community struggle with regularly. So what should you do?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/JFiSketnun0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/anniversary-alone-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anniversary when separated]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[giving gifts]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[having swagger]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[holidays alone]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[managing separation over holidays]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Separated From Your Wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[She wants space]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[should I get her an anniversary gift]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[stop divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-dont-feel-loved-or-wanted-in-my-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I Don't Feel Loved Or Wanted In My Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-04-22T16:08:52-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Struggling with a sense that you don't feel loved in your marriage? Do you want more fun, more laughter, more togetherness &amp; passion in your relationship? ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/7EBkW4O-xIU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_11212737_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[generous man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[get more love]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[How to get more love]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[loving husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[make her love you again]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculine man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[passionate marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[re-kindle the spark]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/sexless-marriage-advice-for-men/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Sexless Marriage Advice For Men | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-03-18T16:48:23-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Sexless marriage is a phrase that can cause a sudden, unexpected knot of shame and anxiety to appear in your gut.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/mFNm_N1clqs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Wise-Old-Man-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[dealing with a sexless relationship as a man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[husbands and sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[man-to-man marriage advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[man-to-man sex advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[men who've experienced sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage advice for men]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[survive a sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-want-my-wife-to-give-me-more-sex/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I Want My Wife To Give Me More Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-03-18T14:24:43-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[After living through this myself and then coaching thousands of men through this exact situation, I have a well-defined answer to the statement "I want my wife to give me more sex".  ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ji5okBRqnfk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Husband-Wants-More-Sex-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[dealing with horniness]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[get more sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Horny husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[make her desire me]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[make her want me]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[more sex in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[morning wood in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[need more sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexually frustrated man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[want sex more often]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-overreacting-to-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Overreacting To Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-09-15T23:47:41-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In fact, the smartest, toughest, wisest and happiest men I know are just like you. They read, they share, they give a crap about their brothers and they listen.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/rVmmlmlEJu8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/How-To-Stop-Overreacting-To-Your-Wife.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-i-had-to-learn-before-i-could-create-a-more-passionate-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What I Had To Learn Before I Could Create A More Passionate Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-15T17:00:26-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It will be one of the most important and most defining moments in your life. This is the way one man in the community put it recently. Read it with his Scottish accent for fun.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/VQX1sRGFL5c</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-I-Had-To-Learn-Before-I-Could-Create-A-More-Passionate-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-feeling-exhausted-about-your-unhappy-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling Exhausted About Your Unhappy Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-12T17:00:03-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[An unhappy marriage feels exhausting when you keep reacting to every problem. Learn to lift your head, choose direction and make a plan.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qSqME4YpfgA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Stop-Feeling-Exhausted-About-Your-Unhappy-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-more-trust-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create More Trust In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-06T17:00:50-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Trust in marriage grows when you stop trying to control outcomes and learn to trust your own wings, values and emotional strength.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/la1TiPcIQDA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Create-More-Trust-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-common-habit-that-ruins-marriages/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Common Habit That Ruins Marriages | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-02T17:00:10-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Today I want to talk about another aspect of John Gottman's research into what makes relationships last and marriages survive...or crash and burn.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/5KPOoZVFr30</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Common-Habit-That-Ruins-Marriages.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/has-your-wife-said-youre-always-defensive/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Has Your Wife Said You're Always Defensive? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-31T17:00:52-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's perfectly acceptable for them to be moody, crabby, crampy, pouty, pissy and angry without you making it all about you.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/SPW8f169xSs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Has-Your-Wife-Said-Youre-Always-Defensive.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-reignite-the-attraction-when-your-wife-says-its-gone/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Reignite the Attraction When Your Wife Says its Gone | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2026-03-25T00:21:19-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you losing attraction to your wife? Trying to resuscitate intimacy in your relationship? Find out how to reignite the attraction when your wife says it's gone.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/d3YS0q3WPV4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_49171099_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[criticism]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[nagging]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/when-your-world-seems-dark-how-do-you-find-the-light-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[When Your World Seems Dark How Do You Find The Light Again? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-29T17:00:31-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to stay calm in a relationship when fear takes over, stop reacting to her moods, and find your lane again with confidence and clarity as a man.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/HX3qWufXlxE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/When-Your-World-Seems-Dark-How-Do-You-Find-The-Light-Again.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-holds-most-men-back-from-creating-the-marriage-they-really-want/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Holds Most Men Back From Creating The Marriage They Really Want | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-14T17:00:35-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Stop trying to fix your marriage with talks, questions and pressure. Learn why calm self-leadership creates the shift your wife least expects.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3iSO0ycFXYg</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-Holds-Most-Men-Back-From-Creating-The-Marriage-They-Really-Want.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-bring-your-dying-marriage-back-to-life/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Bring Your Dying Marriage Back To Life | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-16T17:00:56-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to save a dying marriage when trust, intimacy and connection are disappearing. Learn why changing yourself is the only real place to start.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/D-FqmMzBbPM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Bring-Your-Dying-Marriage-Back-To-Life.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-does-strong-masculine-leadership-look-like/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Does Strong Masculine Leadership Look Like | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-06T17:00:19-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Strong masculine leadership means asking for what you want with confidence, clarity and courage instead of hiding behind fear.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/u61IzdTO3nI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-Does-Strong-Masculine-Leadership-Look-Like.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-trying-to-make-your-critical-wife-happy-never-works/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Trying to Make Your Critical Wife Happy Never Works | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-07T17:00:47-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Trying to make your critical wife happy keeps you defensive and unattractive. Learn how lover energy changes the tone without needing approval.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/kgimonxrh1A</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Why-Trying-to-Make-Your-Critical-Wife-Happy-Never-Works.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-attraction-when-your-wife-isnt-interested/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create Attraction When Your Wife Isn't Interested | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-08T17:00:06-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to create attraction when your wife isn’t interested by dropping fearful reactions and speaking clearly from calm masculine confidence.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/WJ-QpcDF3Zk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Create-Attraction-When-Your-Wife-Isnt-Interested.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-your-marriage-feeling-so-lonely/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Your Marriage Feeling So Lonely | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-12T17:00:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to stop your marriage feeling so lonely by facing disconnection honestly, rebuilding self-respect and learning to create connection again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/yqHoQZzACa0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Stop-Your-Marriage-Feeling-So-Lonely.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-the-state-of-your-marriage-overwhelming-you-2/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop The State Of Your Marriage Overwhelming You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-11T17:00:25-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to stop the state of your marriage overwhelming you by calming anxiety, reclaiming control and rebuilding self-respect before you act.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/JVCS3iZwflo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Stop-The-State-Of-Your-Marriage-Overwhelming-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-shames-your-sexual-drive/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do When Your Wife Shames Your Sexual Drive | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-09T17:00:14-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What to do when your wife shames your sexual drive: stop hiding desire, drop blame, and speak honestly without pressure or resentment.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/nJ7H-WDfGxs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-To-Do-When-Your-Wife-Shames-Your-Sexual-Drive.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-teach-your-wife-how-you-want-to-be-treated/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Teach Your Wife How You Want To Be Treated | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-04T17:00:55-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to teach your wife how you want to be treated with calm boundaries, self-respect and clear standards instead of anger or control.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/oZ1tTxt7SzA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Teach-Your-Wife-How-You-Want-To-Be-Treated.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-fix-the-unhappiness-in-your-marriage-with-confidence/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Fix The Unhappiness In Your Marriage With Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-07-03T17:00:11-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How to fix the unhappiness in your marriage by becoming the respect, connection and trust you keep waiting for her to give you.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/EbtNHduTRV0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Fix-The-Unhappiness-In-Your-Marriage-With-Confidence.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-ok-when-your-marriage-is-in-crisis/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be OK When Your Marriage Is In Crisis | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[How to be OK when your marriage is in crisis by calming fear, seeing your thoughts clearly and finding steadiness before you act.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Struggling With Anxiety About Your Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-03T17:00:11-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Anxiety about your marriage grows when your whole identity depends on one role. Learn why finding your mission helps you feel steady again.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Make Real Lasting Changes In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-04T17:00:01-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Lasting changes in your marriage don’t come from more personal growth content. They come from accountability, brotherhood and action.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Wife Gives Affection To The Kids And The Dog But Not You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[If your wife gives affection to everyone but you, the problem may be pressure, neediness and forgetting how to love your own life.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create The Spark Of Attraction Again (Even If She Said It's Gone) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-08T17:00:37-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Trying to save the marriage with logic and panic won’t work. Learn why spiritual clarity creates confidence, direction and attraction again.]]></video:description>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do When Your Wife Is Disengaging From The Relationship | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-09T17:00:11-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When your wife is disengaging from the relationship, stop chasing reassurance. Learn why insecurity creates pressure and what she needs to feel.]]></video:description>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do If You Don't Feel Confident With Your Wife Anymore | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-10T17:00:12-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-To-Do-If-You-Dont-Feel-Confident-With-Your-Wife-Anymore.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[If we want trusting, respectful and safe relationships between men and women we must create stronger men AND women of integrity, empathy and emotional maturity.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Feel More Happy And Confident As A Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Feel more confident as a man by keeping one clear promise, following through and proving to yourself that your word still means something.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Keep The Spark Of Fun &amp; Passion In Your Relationship | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-14T17:00:02-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Have you ever had that "not so fresh" feeling? I'm not referring to your hygiene. I'm talking about your overall mood, energy level and attitude.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Keep-The-Spark-Of-Fun-Passion-In-Your-Relationship.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Your Withdrawn Wife Needs From You But Can't Ask For | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-16T17:00:59-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Let's talk about how we can reduce the pressure and create an environment where softness, relaxation and closer INTIMACY is possible.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/uwD-SCxY2-8</video:player_loc>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/your-wife-needs-you-to-have-a-different-kind-of-confidence/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Your Wife Needs You To Have A Different Kind Of Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-08-18T17:00:26-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Confidence in marriage isn’t about being bullet-proof. It’s about staying calm, secure and honest when your wife’s reactions trigger fear.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Your-Wife-Needs-You-To-Have-A-Different-Kind-Of-Confidence.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-take-your-own-red-pill-not-someone-elses/</loc>
		<video:video>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[I wish I had a dollar for every time I've been asked, "Hey Steve, what do think about this Red Pill thing?"]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/How-To-Take-Your-Own-Red-Pill-Not-Someone-Elses.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Sabotaging The Intimacy You Want | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-09-15T06:45:27-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I made this video to give you another way to think about "outcome dependence" and how you can stop trying to control other and increase your own self-respect.]]></video:description>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Reestablish The Trust Passion &amp; Intimacy With Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Learn how to rebuild trust with your wife when she’s distant, hurt or unsure, without chasing timelines, pressuring her or forcing intimacy.]]></video:description>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Avoid Making This Mistake Which Turns Off Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Stop turning off your wife by over-explaining your growth. Learn how consistent action rebuilds trust, attraction, and respect.]]></video:description>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Get More Touch From Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[I tend to work with guys who have a hidden and hopeless romantic streak in them. Guys who crave deeper connections, more vulnerable conversations and more sensual touching with their partner.]]></video:description>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/learn-wife-whispering-to-lead-your-wife-back-to-intimacy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Learn Wife Whispering To Lead Your Marriage Back To Intimacy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Wife whispering is where you learn how to lead your marriage back to intimacy again. Women can feel negativity &amp; pressure from you &amp; it shuts down passion]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-have-connected-playful-relationships/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Have Connected, Playful Relationships | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-03-26T08:54:45-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I want to talk with you about living in the kind of life and relationship you really, really want.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[So Confident You Can Turn Down Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-03-17T17:22:57-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Learn how some simple changes to the way you behave can reset your confidence in yourself and become the man your wife longs to be on top of.]]></video:description>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Show Your Wife It's Safe To Ride You Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-04-16T06:09:52-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Women communicate using many senses. To create the relationship we want and deserve, men need to communicate using more than just our ears and mouths.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[The Secret Cure For The Chronically Unhappy Husband | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-11-10T09:47:25-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There's something eating at you and it's driving you nuts! At work, with friends and everywhere else you're killing it, but at home, with your wife, you're lost]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Make Your Wife More Affectionate in 7 Days | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-11-02T18:01:28-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you making this very common mistake that many husbands fall into which is causing your wife to back away from you and become unaffectionate?]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[We get so frustrated by our intimate partners when we're trying as hard as we can to ask for what we want from her in the relationship but she resists and pushes against us or moves away from us. And because she resists we lose confidence in ourselves and in the belief that we are the man she wants to be with. In this article we discuss how you can change who you're being and how you are asking so that you can get the things you want from her...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Avoid Certain Divorce and End the Criticism | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-01-17T07:10:52-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Struggling in your marriage with a lack of trust, respect and affection? Find out how you might be accidentally creating the disconnection you're feeling...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/zZrFLzIIyxY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_66608175_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[passion]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-if-you-think-your-wife-is-leaving-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What to Do if You Think Your Wife is Leaving You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-12-30T09:35:58-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[You know your relationship is struggling. It's all you can think about and no matter what you read, listen to or watch, everything you do just makes it worse...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/NxINg0ziX5Y</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_11212737_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[temporary separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-wife-is-not-interested-in-sex-and-affection/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Not Interested in Sex? Find Out Now – Read This Post | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-12-21T08:39:37-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Tried everything to get your wife to be more sexual with you but she is no longer interested in sex? Just read this post to know why she is not interested in sex.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/LYOeBoODLkQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_2374263_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-a-confident-man-when-your-marriage-is-heading-for-divorce/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Be a Confident Man When Your Marriage is Heading for Divorce | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-12-14T07:26:55-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[So much relationship friction comes from the man not being able to be clear in his leadership role. In this article we discuss how to take back control...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/m00jmlO8q-8</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-more-confident-and-attractive-to-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to BE More Confident and Attractive to Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-11-29T10:04:39-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you feeling frustrated with the lack of interest and enthusiasm shown by your wife toward you? In this article we discuss a common mistake men make...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-9rKn0DpbMc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Depositphotos_18446757_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/make-your-wife-want-more-sex-with-you-with-this-vulcan-mind-trick/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Make Your Wife Want More Sex With You With This Vulcan Mind Trick | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-12-08T08:11:46-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this article we discuss the common mistake that many men are unconsciously making that turns their wife off the idea of sex before they've even said a word...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Cghh5sw9uEs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_58392449_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-doesnt-trust-me-are-you-causing-her-to-be-distant/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[She Doesn’t Trust Me | How to Get My Wife to Trust Me | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-10-15T14:30:14-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your wife doesn’t trust you? Connect us at Good Guys 2 Great Men now and get to know how you can get your wife to trust you again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/xmxhAkOvzjs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/14691423683_dc9233e232_o-e1539623950392-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/sexless-marriage-how-to-attract-her-back-to-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Sexless Marriage? How to Start Attracting Your Wife Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-09-12T06:09:23-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Has your wife started distancing from you? She says you're only after one thing or being needy? Respond in a way that naturally attracts her back toward you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3dMkxXArkCY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Man-and-Woman-Arguing-e1516369483528-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-being-vulnerable-with-your-wife-is-sexy-and-how-it-can-also-turn-her-off/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Being Vulnerable with Your Wife is Sexy (and How it Can also Turn Her Off) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-09-23T16:59:35-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Why does your wife get mad at you or frustrated or shut down when you open up to her and tell her your problems or fears? Aren't we supposed to be vulnerable..?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/hSh4Pg9MPT8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/6845197676_3da7ace146_b-e1537743493987-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/this-habit-makes-you-awkward-around-your-wife-and-kills-your-sex-life/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[This Habit Makes You Awkward Around Your Wife and Kills Your Sex Life | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-09-30T09:03:06-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This habit kills confidence, your sense of personal power, your value, intimacy and your sex life because you feel insecure and uncertain about your future and how to get what you want.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ImQTvJfk7iA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Affectionate-Wife-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-respond-to-your-wifes-criticising-as-a-powerful-confident-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Respond to Your Wife's Criticising as a Powerful, Confident Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-08-13T10:00:26-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Why does it feel like your wife is always unhappy with what you're doing? In this article we discuss how you can respond in a way that's calming to both you &amp; her]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/XzMoodpHgqc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/3712092065_f7cf0ebc10_o-e1534175962755-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-get-instant-relief-from-horniness/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Get Instant Relief from Horniness | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-08-26T03:50:07-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you're a man faced with feeling unseen, unappreciated or under-sexed, it's time to stop playing games and just be honest.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/o-KrMXokG4g</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/8899001400_f72cfe817e_o-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-quickest-way-to-being-a-more-confident-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Quickest Way to Being a More Confident Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-10-07T23:47:41-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Understand how to make the very smallest little changes in the way you're showing up, that will have the most exponential impact on your results.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/KY5FcdtL3lI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/6068094882_2a019977e2_b-e1538977398600-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-whether-to-fix-your-marriage-or-leave-it/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know Whether to Fix Your Marriage or Leave it | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-07-11T07:49:01-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your relationship struggling? Are you frustrated with what little you can do to fix it? In this article we discuss how you KNOW whether it's fixable or time to move on...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/PuxfapmoSIM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Depositphotos_1838914_ds-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[temporary separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-intimate-connection-with-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Create an Intimate Connection with Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-06-17T07:32:29-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When a relationship is struggling we men can often try anything to find the THING she needs to be attracted and relaxed with us again. But what if it was easy...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/o-Fi7hdVWA0</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[disconnection]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[healthy sex life]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[intimacy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[lack of sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[need space]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[no sex marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[passion]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-doesnt-respect-me-what-should-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Doesn't Respect Me, What Should I do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-05-28T06:59:13-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When we talk to men about the loss of respect in their marriage we're really showing them how to become emotionally secure, more confident and less fearful men...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/h5FDgJc9Zqk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Depositphotos_25244639_ds-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-your-wife-loses-attraction-and-respect-for-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Your Wife Loses Attraction and Respect For You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-05-25T09:07:04-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How We Help You to Save Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-05-19T08:57:55-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How do you know where to turn to when your relationship or marriage is struggling? How can you be sure you've chosen the right approach to fix the problems...?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/VfSpATPMmzU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_70584153_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/unhappy-marriage-is-this-why-your-wife-is-not-attracted-to-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Unhappy Marriage, Are You Making This Common Mistake with Your Wife? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-05-16T11:04:38-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This is one of the most common mistakes we see men making in their relationships under the guise of showing her how much they care about her and her happiness...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/g6Qr46BCfDw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_41330775_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[trust]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unaffectionate wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-hate-my-wife-how-do-i-create-a-passionate-marriage-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I Hate My Wife, How do I Create a Passionate Marriage Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-05-08T10:26:31-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you walking on eggshells all the time around your wife. Do you feel tense and judged by her attitude towards you? In this article we discuss how to change that...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/y7mqzXSG02c</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/unattractive-neediness-what-to-do-if-your-wife-calls-you-needy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Unattractive Neediness - What to Do if Your Wife Calls You Needy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-04-30T11:04:45-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Has your wife or girlfriend called you needy? What about "you're smothering me". Or maybe "I need space". Learn how we can unknowingly be needy in relationships...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ky7nb6yJ6OY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_11204192_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife says she's smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-need-space-how-to-give-space-and-improve-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA["I Need Space" How to Give Space AND Improve Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-04-21T04:53:41-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[You've heard the three words that strike fear into the hearts of men - "I need space" - in this article we discuss what you can do to respond positively...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_28674217_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[frustrated husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[I can't do this anymore]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife asked for space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-your-silence-may-be-creating-your-detached-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Your Silence May Be Creating Your Detached Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-03-30T20:51:50-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If your anger creeps up on you without you knowing and you seem to be creating a pissy, angry life in every interaction, find out how to avoid it here...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_67970515_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-is-never-loving-and-affectionate-toward-me/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife is Never Loving and Affectionate Toward Me | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-03-24T08:49:45-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this article we discuss how women are turned off and intimidated by men acting from fear, distrust and suspicion even when we don't know we're doing it!!]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/sXvPHbNu8RQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_50622835_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anxiety]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[frustrated husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-can-i-save-my-marriage-and-why-its-the-wrong-question-to-ask/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Can I Save My Marriage? and Why it's the Wrong Question to Ask | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-03-14T09:19:57-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If your marriage is stagnant or you know it's struggling and you're confused how to fix it, this article can help you understand the right path to take...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/VsKVBriFFPo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_104190778_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[criticism]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[nagging]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-path-from-feeling-anxious-and-frustrated-to-a-calmer-sexier-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Path From Feeling Anxious and Frustrated to a Calmer, Sexier Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-02-26T07:13:30-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you struggling to find your calm confidence? Do you feel anxious and frustrated by the tension in your marriage? Find out how to change it...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/FvPMGAJ5KsU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Depositphotos_97432234_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anxiety]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anxious man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[frustrated husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-handle-a-disrespectful-critical-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Handle a Disrespectful, Critical Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-02-21T09:46:42-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you feel disrespected and criticised by your wife? We discuss how you can handle these situations in a calm, confident way that builds her attraction to you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/rWQZoUnVai8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_11881189_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-more-masculine-and-create-the-relationship-you-want/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to BE More Masculine and Create the Relationship You Want | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-02-16T08:40:22-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you craving more connection and affection in your relationship? In this article I discuss the one key foundation of a masculine confident man...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/eRrG4bjR-N4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_3450212_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[dating advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculine man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/are-you-making-this-common-relationship-mistake/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Are You Making This Common Relationship Mistake? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-02-12T07:34:49-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Don’t know why you are not ready for a relationship? Find out signs you are not ready for a girlfriend. Join our live coaching program today!]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/rZpKgx41_m4</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/handle-the-silent-treatment-in-a-way-that-builds-trust-and-connection/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Handle the Silent Treatment in a Way That Builds Trust and Connection | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-01-26T16:21:09-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you regularly get the silent treatment from your wife or partner? Want to know why and how it's a sign that your relationship could be headed for divorce? Read on...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/1vFPOd1Ay7s</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_24427619_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-said-im-controlling-what-do-i-do-now/</loc>
		<video:video>
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			<video:publication_date>2020-01-12T08:10:33-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When you're being pushed away or told your partner or wife needs space, or maybe she's going out all the time, this advice could save your relationship..]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-overreacting-reduces-the-affection-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Reduces the Affection in Your Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-12-23T04:18:47-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Struggling with the lack of affection in your marriage? In this article we talk about a simple mantra that has a huge affect on closeness and connection...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/being-more-confident-and-masculine-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Be a Confident Man in Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-12-12T08:24:33-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Sometimes it feels like you don't know how to be or what to say or even that it's awkward being you. Here are some super simple ways to change that...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/5V8mfuMOBp0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Depositphotos_208836690_ds-opt-2-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wife-wants-a-divorce-how-to-stop-the-crushing-fear-and-loneliness/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Wants a Divorce? The Best Way to Respond | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-12-10T13:09:07-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you're facing the crushing pain, fear and loneliness of possible divorce, we want to help you find your feet and your confidence to know what to do next...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZRhXjqp_S74</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Depositphotos_194635276_ds-opt-2-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[mens group]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-turn-your-unhappy-marriage-into-a-happy-one/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Turn Your Unhappy Marriage Into a Happy One | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-12-10T07:11:38-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It seems too simple to make much difference, but after coaching hundreds of men over many years, I can tell you this simple CHOICE can have a huge impact..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/cvilJE0TXoM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Depositphotos_222440832_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/this-kills-your-confidence-and-your-wifes-attraction/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[This Kills Your Confidence AND Your Wife's Attraction | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-11-30T13:30:29-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Keep finding yourself getting annoyed by your wife and then wishing you could have handled the situation differently afterwards? Then this article is for you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-4EDhdAHrOg</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Depositphotos_50055053_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[lead your wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-doesnt-love-me-anymore-what-can-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Doesn't Love Me Anymore, What Can I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-11-21T17:52:46-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you're hearing her say she wants space or that she's feeling smothered and needs some time alone, here's the reason why and what to do next...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/hrPR-ENnzsw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Depositphotos_29454967_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[always arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anger]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife says she's smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/turn-your-angry-wife-into-a-purring-pussycat/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Turn Your Angry Wife Into a Purring Pussycat | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-11-16T08:15:33-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There's a common struggle for the men we coach, they're always trying to change their wife's perception of them, but they're going about it all wrong...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/SU_kfl_ElY4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Depositphotos_228439146_ds-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anger]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[upset wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-a-naturally-confident-and-attractive-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Be a Naturally Confident and Attractive Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-11-13T04:59:54-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What is the key to being more confident and attractive? In this article we discuss a simple distinction that radically changes how you feel about you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ylwSLa-SObE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/mountain-lion-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-initiate-sex-and-not-get-rejected/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Initiate Sex and Not Get Rejected | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-10-30T05:01:55-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When is the best time to ask for or initiate sex with your partner? I this article we discuss the most common reason that men are rejected for sex &amp; intimacy...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZnKMAxzV7HI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Depositphotos_19061151_ds-e1572433031210-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[always arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anger]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[dating advice]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife says she's smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/become-more-attractive-to-your-wife-by-stopping-this-one-thing/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Become More Attractive to Your Wife By Stopping This One Thing | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[10 Signs Your Marriage is in Big Trouble | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-10-03T08:55:03-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Doesn't Want to Spend Time With Me, What Can I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Just Said She Wants A Divorce, What Now? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-08-19T12:01:54-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you have just heard your wife say she wants a divorce, then I'm sorry but no amount of increased talking and negotiating will help you - you need action...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/AwF7Vrdkw_E</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-kind-of-man-who-can-save-his-marriage-from-divorce/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Kind Of Man Who Can Save His Marriage From Divorce | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-07-28T05:38:10-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you walking on eggshells, unsure and tentative around your partner? In this article, we discuss the key to turning things around...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/The-Kind-Of-Man-Who-Can-Save-His-Marriage-From-Divorce.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/failing-marriage-how-to-create-a-better-relationship-by-dan-dore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Failing Marriage? How to Create a Better Relationship | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-08-11T12:46:26-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your marriage struggling? Are you trying so hard to turn things around but things only seem to get worse? In this article we discuss a different approach...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-more-confident-around-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Be More Confident Around Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-07-20T07:58:25-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you stuck in a downward spiral of fear and worry about your relationship or job or life? In this article we discuss a simple tip to flip your direction...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-does-my-wife-avoid-me/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Does My Wife Avoid Me? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-05-17T07:25:37-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Does your wife or partner leave the room when you enter? Are you arguing a lot? Do you feel tension when you're around each other? Find out why...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Zg_Cn0MvKPc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Depositphotos_97737120_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[cold wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unaffectionate wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-lead-your-marriage-to-more-passion-and-connection/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Lead Your Marriage to More Passion and Connection | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-05-15T08:37:34-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Feeling like you're stuck in a dead end, lifeless marriage, and you can't see a positive future? In this article we discuss what to do to change that..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/oYnP9P-wv9w</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Depositphotos_204654086_ds-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[lead your marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-more-fun-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Create More Fun in Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-05-15T00:53:08-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Want more engagement, more connection, more enthusiasm, more passion, more desire in your marriage? Here's a simple solution...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qGdyL86DvUQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Depositphotos_6374882_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexual marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/she-needs-space-dont-react-like-this/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[She Needs Space - Don't React Like This! | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-05-05T15:18:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you recently heard your partner say "I need space" or maybe "I feel smothered." In this article we discuss the best ways to respond..]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Depositphotos_145623603_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/is-trust-causing-the-disconnection-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Is Trust Causing The Disconnection In Your Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-04-19T14:14:43-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you had your trust broken? Or maybe you're hearing someone say they don't trust you. In this article we talk about the different ways to give trust..]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[can't trust her]]></video:tag>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Doesn't Want To Have Sex When I Am Upset | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-being-anxious-about-your-marriage-problems/</loc>
		<video:video>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[A Simple Way to Build Your Confidence Today | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-03-30T07:46:15-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wife-always-has-an-excuse-not-to-have-sex/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Always Has an Excuse Not to Have Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-03-30T07:25:34-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you the one who always has to initiate sex? Does your wife reject 95% of your advances? In this article we discuss where you may be causing it..]]></video:description>
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		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/should-i-still-fight-to-save-my-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Should I Still Fight to Save My Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-03-01T09:24:31-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is it worth putting in all the effort to resolve the issues and fix your marriage? Or, should I go in search of fulfilling and passionate life instead..?]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-is-a-feminist-and-thinks-masculinity-is-toxic/</loc>
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			<video:publication_date>2020-02-27T05:54:43-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife will trust, respect and love your masculine leadership when you become a stronger man of integrity, empathy &amp; emotional maturity..]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Said I'm Not a Strong Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-02-26T07:10:04-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you heard "You're not a strong enough man for me"? What does that even mean? In this article we discuss why it's not physical strength she wants from you..]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[weak man]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-just-said-shes-not-happy-in-our-marriage-help/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Just Said She's Not Happy in Our Marriage - Help! | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-02-20T15:41:57-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Has your wife or partner just said she isn't happy? Maybe you heard that she loves you but isn't in love with you. Here's how to deal with the fear in your gut.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Depositphotos_145815407_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unaffectionate wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-says-she-wants-to-leave-me-what-should-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Says She Wants to Leave Me, What Should I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-01-26T03:58:28-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Why didn't she tell me she was unhappy? How can she think of breaking up the family? What can I DO right now to FIX this...?!!]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-is-my-wife-so-cold-and-distant/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why is My Wife so Cold and Distant? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-01-26T03:21:03-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There's a simple understanding that most men never figure out about relationships and then they waste so much time and effort focused in the wrong places...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Depositphotos_149793130_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[cold wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[nervous husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unaffectionate wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-re-attract-your-wife-the-truth-behind-the-answers-youre-looking-for/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Re-attract Your Wife (the Truth Behind the Answers You're Looking for) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-01-23T03:56:09-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Save your marriage. Get more sex. Make your wife happy. Make her want you again. In this article I'll show you the REAL answer to all these questions..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/OUnKlLOJm1Y</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Depositphotos_85330476_ds-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-wants-a-divorce-but-i-dont-what-should-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Wants A Divorce, But I Don't.. | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-08-17T05:34:57-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Just heard your wife say she wants a divorce? One thing that helps men in your situation more than anything is being around other men who've been there...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/MTAuTNkzdok</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Depositphotos_211918130_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[mens group]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-is-my-wife-not-interested-in-me-sexually/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why is My Wife Not Interested in Me Sexually? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-08-10T03:28:42-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There's a very common reason that men find they're in long term relationships with women who've lost interest in them, in this article we explain why...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/sp9mmi-H-l0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Depositphotos_28056433_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-wife-and-marriage-is-sexless/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Wife And Marriage Is Sexless | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-08-03T23:43:51-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There's one key difference between the men I coach who have sexless marriages and those with passionate ones - it's how they answer this question..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/B7Srp6W_cLs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Depositphotos_23868923_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/mens-4-most-common-questions-about-sex/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Men's Top Questions About Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-07-23T09:41:25-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you frustrated and confused about what women want and need from you around sex? We put your most common sex "yeah but..." questions to Shana and Alexis....]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/7zkmNFOtCg4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_67970175_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[criticism]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex appeal]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-do-women-lose-interest-in-sex-and-how-to-rekindle-the-spark/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why do Women Lose Interest in Sex and How to Rekindle the Spark | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-07-23T07:00:31-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is there a lack of sex in your marriage? Tried talking about it? Is it getting worse...? Alexis and Shana explain what she really needs from you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/T8jPIuvYyeo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_11212737_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/do-women-need-to-feel-connected-to-have-sex/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Do Women Need to Feel Connected to Have Sex? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-07-23T06:38:15-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you get confused and frustrated by all the different information on creating the right environment for your partner to want sex? Find out the real truth...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/RON--qxetwY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_58392449_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[horniness]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[horny]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-become-an-amazing-lover/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Become An Amazing Lover | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-07-23T06:24:10-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Ever wanted to know how women describe what they want from men in bed? In this video learn how to become an amazing lover from the horses (women) mouth..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/lDKT8mvqBo8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_229837318_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[horniness]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[the feminine perspective]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-abuses-me-what-should-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Is Abusing Me, What Should I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-28T05:02:53-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your wife calling you names, giving you the silent treatment, being distant or giving you the cold shoulder and ignoring you? Here's what to do...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/o0tdMaisL-E</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Depositphotos_195144750_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[abusive wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anger]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[upset wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife abuses me]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-is-my-wife-no-longer-attracted-to-me/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Is My Wife No Longer Attracted To Me? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-20T03:35:14-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or relationship? Maybe your wife just doesn't seem attracted to you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CZsCpa2ZCBU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Depositphotos_36641555_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[criticism]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex appeal]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-wont-my-wife-talk-to-me-anymore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Won't My Wife Talk To Me Anymore? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-20T01:51:20-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your wife or partner distant and avoiding taking to you? In this article I discuss what causes her to behave like this...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/iULWDv5DYk0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Depositphotos_88323068_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[temporary separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-can-i-be-more-confident-in-my-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Can I Be More Confident In My Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-20T01:11:48-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you want to create more connection and affection in your marriage? There's a simple reason most men lose their confidence...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/RI1dm5bixQ4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Depositphotos_10849511_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wife-wants-to-divorce-i-feel-like-im-dying-help/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Wants to Divorce, I Feel Like I'm Dying, Help! | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-05-31T11:55:55-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you've just heard your wife say she wants a divorce, here's a key change in your thinking that can make all the difference..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/9oVYM1R01HA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Depositphotos_28674197_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[mens group]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[temporary separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife feels smothered]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife needs space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/5-steps-to-reignite-your-sexless-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[If you're stuck and frustrated, feeling like you don't know what to do, this article will help you make the right decision for your situation.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Said "You Need To Get A Life!" | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-the-marriage-you-really-want-this-year/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create The Marriage You Really Want This Year | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-01-03T05:40:48-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Want to know how to create the marriage you really want? More passion, more vulnerability, more laughter and flirtation? In this article we discuss how...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/marriage-counselling-isnt-helping-us/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Marriage Counselling Isn't Helping Us | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-12-22T09:04:18-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are your marriage counselling sessions making things more tense and more difficult afterwards? In this article we'll tell you why and what to do about it...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Ever find yourself feeling subconscious and wondering whether your size makes a difference to her enjoyment? Alexis and Shana give you the low down...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/VCzxpBVkw8g</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/alexis/">Alexis Shepperd</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-masculine-confidence-can-save-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Save Your Marriage With Masculine Confidence]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[If you're feeling anxious and worried about the stability of your marriage or you want more affection and passion, then masculine confidence is what is missing.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/W9HiQ3OD8l4</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[lead your marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Doesn't My Wife Want To Be Intimate With Me? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-12-06T09:39:53-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you lie in bed at night wondering why you don't have more intimacy and connection with your wife (and why you feel so crappy about it?)]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-feel-more-confident-and-strong-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Feel More Confident in Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-11-20T06:58:39-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you ever ask your partner or wife for more affection, sex and intimacy? What happens if she says no? Do you get upset? Does that help you?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/TLNxFyDhqnQ</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-said-shes-not-attracted-to-me-anymore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Said She's Not Attracted to Me Anymore | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-11-13T04:15:01-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your relationship distant, distracted, boring even? Do you feel like you're just roommates? In this article I discuss how to bring that spark back...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_73321991_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[passionate marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexual marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-a-more-sexual-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create a More Sexual Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-11-01T06:47:55-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you want to create a more sexual marriage? In this article we discuss the 3 most important traits we teach men that radically change your relationship.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/F_1Y1Itl34A</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[lead your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[lead your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[leader in your relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[leading your wife]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-use-hope-to-reconcile-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Use Hope to Reconcile Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-10-30T04:46:04-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Stuck in a struggling marriage where one person is hoping to reconcile and the other is asking for space or staying distant? We discuss what to do next..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/mRCjE5go7uU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Depositphotos_150957230_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[cold wife]]></video:tag>
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		<video:video>
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			<video:publication_date>2020-10-10T07:03:15-06:00</video:publication_date>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Arguing About Sex Gets You Less Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-09-21T03:44:30-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you regularly get into disagreements around sex and the regularity of it in your relationship?]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I'm Stuck In An Unhappy Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-09-20T04:10:37-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you in an unhappy marriage? Do you think that you married the wrong person? This article may change everything for you...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-quickest-way-to-stop-hating-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Quickest Way To Stop Hating Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-09-10T09:56:19-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you anxious and walking on eggshells around your wife all the time? In this article I discuss how to break the tension instantly..]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Go From Angry and Frustrated, To Calm and Confident | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you complain about your partner under your breath, roll your eyes, shake your head or throw your hands up in frustration? Here's a better way to handle things..]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Wants a Divorce | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-05-13T09:09:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you just heard that your wife wants a divorce? Maybe you're unsure if that's what she wants but it's what you're afraid that might be how she's feeling?]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
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			<video:publication_date>2021-05-11T11:52:57-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[We speak to men every day about how to improve your marriage, and a common thing they say is My wife is unhappy but doesn't know what she wants. What can I do?]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Have More Sex in My Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-05-11T10:45:35-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If there's one question that I hear from men all the time it's "how to have more sex in my marriage" and I get it, who doesn't want to know the secret to...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Recover Your Failing Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-05-09T06:48:45-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I know how it feels to want to recover your failing marriage, I recognise the all-encompassing anxiety and fear that knots up your stomach and affects your...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-doesnt-feel-safe-with-me/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Doesn't Feel Safe With Me | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-05-09T06:01:29-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The realisation that your wife doesn't feel safe with you can be very confusing, especially when there's no history of abuse, violence or even arguing...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-is-happy-around-everyone-else-but-me/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife is Happy Around Everyone Else But Me | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-05-08T03:35:22-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you ever thought to yourself "My Wife is Happy Around Everyone Else But Me" and the feelings of confusion and frustration that come with that thought?]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-said-she-doesnt-have-feelings-for-me-anymore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Said She Doesn't Have Feelings For Me Anymore | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-05-03T05:39:51-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Never Initiates Sex...What Can I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Always Criticizes Me | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wifes-stress-is-causing-me-stress/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife's Stress is Causing ME Stress | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-03-09T09:26:01-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you find that your partner is always stressed? Have you thought to yourself My wife's stress is causing me stress... Find out how to stop it forever...]]></video:description>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-dont-want-to-be-married-anymore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I Don't Want to Be Married Anymore | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you found yourself thinking I don't want to be married anymore? In this article we discuss how to know whether it's time to move on or how to improve it..]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Is This Why Your Wife Turns You Down For Sex? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-02-22T04:22:13-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you get upset and hurt when your wife turns you down for sex? In this article I discuss why and what you can do differently for a different result...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Different Types of Turn On and How to Help Her Access Them | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-02-11T13:50:23-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There are many different types of turn on women feel and often they don't even look remotely linked to sex or pleasure. Find out how to create more turn on...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/important-ways-to-create-connection-with-women/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Important Ways to Create Connection With Women | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-01-31T08:04:40-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered what the most important ways to create connection with women are? In this article and video we discuss what to do and to avoid...]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/not-getting-triggered-and-managing-your-emotions/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Not Getting Triggered and Managing Your Emotions | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-01-07T10:20:28-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you find you struggle with not getting triggered in your marriage? Is your partner always making snide remarks and criticising you? Want to stop that?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/QrZghqAr4-I</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[manhood]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/stop-being-needy-and-instantly-become-a-more-attractive-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Stop Being Needy And Instantly Become a More Attractive Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-11-23T07:03:18-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Why is it so hard to stop being needy? If you're in a struggling relationship with past infidelity or a lack of affection, intimacy or sex, you know what I mean]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[stop being needy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife said I'm controlling]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/drop-neediness-and-be-a-more-attractive-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Drop Neediness and Be A More Attractive Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-11-18T01:53:44-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[To learn how to drop neediness &amp; be a more attractive man what you "need" to ask yourself is, when it comes to the things you want, are you "outcome dependent"?]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[controlling husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[resentment]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[stop being controlling]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[stop being needy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife said I'm controlling]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/save-my-marriage-my-wife-is-pulling-away-from-me/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Save My Marriage My Wife Is Pulling Away From Me | NBH Backup LLC ]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-11-12T00:00:35-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you noticing a difference in your relationship recently? Does it feel like your wife is pulling away from you? Is she creating distance &amp; asking for space?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CNslqliUXWI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Depositphotos_29454967_xl-2015-opt-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[controlling]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[controlling husband divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[manipulative husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage problems miserable marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-called-me-controlling/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Called Me Controlling | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-11-11T07:58:40-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Almost every man I speak to says at some point "My wife called me controlling" and this causes us great confusion. Here's an example from a recent conversation.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/KmHneMuBDMI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_145812055_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[controlling]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[controlling husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[manipulative]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[manipulative husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[miserable marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-hate-my-wife-but-i-still-love-her-and-dont-want-to-divorce/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I Hate My Wife But I Still Love Her and Don't Want to Divorce | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-09-23T09:50:42-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I know, you just typed in "I hate my wife" into Google and you feel like crap for thinking it, feeling it and admitting it. I've been where you are and it sucks]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/L0kFkAoKYKE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Depositphotos_190749708_ds-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[cold wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[miserable relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[nervous husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[no affection]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[tentative husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unaffectionate wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-avoid-divorce-with-masculine-leadership/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Avoid Divorce With Masculine Leadership | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-10-24T10:06:59-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you dealing with a marriage that is lacking affection? Are you constantly worried &amp; have a knot in your gut because you're scared &amp; trying to avoid divorce?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/9oVYM1R01HA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_49631839_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[avoiding divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[better intimacy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[changing my wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[coaching for men]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[fix your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[fixing my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[fixing myself]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[improving marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[improving sex in your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marital values]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[more intimacy in my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[what to do with my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[working on yourself]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-is-being-a-strong-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Is Being A Strong Man? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-10-14T03:48:23-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Being A Strong Man means something specific in a work environment but what about in a long term, committed, romantic and struggling marriage...?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/2Z0tDVI2aIs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Depositphotos_7791996_xl-2015-opt2-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[affection less marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[be a man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Being A Strong Man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[emasculation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[male confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage longevity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[passionate marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[safety in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[strong character]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[strong husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[trust in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-says-im-pushing-her-away/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Says I'm Pushing Her Away | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-08-22T08:39:22-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In the past I Googled "My wife says I'm pushing her away" so now I'm here to help you avoid the mistakes I made and understand what you should do instead...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CaYqHpyCb8Y</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Depositphotos_133018022_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-said-im-insecure-and-need-to-be-more-confident/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Said I'm Insecure and Need to Be More Confident | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-07-31T07:32:21-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, I see you Googling "My wife said I'm insecure" and I wrote this article just for you (because I've been where you are right now...)]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ppkra9ohr9I</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Depositphotos_190749708_ds-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[criticism]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculine man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[nagging]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-secret-to-creating-a-happier-marriage-and-life/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Secret to Creating a Happier Marriage (and Life) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-09-10T01:48:36-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What is the secret to creating a happier marriage and life? This is the fundamental problem that I see most men struggling with in their relationships at home..]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ip6OEfPHUIU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/Depositphotos_164706364_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[avoiding divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[better intimacy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[coaching for men]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[fix your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[fixing my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[fixing myself]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[improving marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[improving sex in your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marital values]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[more intimacy in my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save your marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[what to do with my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[working on yourself]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-doesnt-want-me-to-touch-her-anymore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Doesn't Want Me to Touch Her Anymore | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-08-18T09:09:33-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I know what it's like thinking "my wife doesn't want me" and how hard it is to be in a committed romantic relationship with someone who keeps you at arms length]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/2gMEQ2ZV4LA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Depositphotos_133018022_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[arguing]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[criticism]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculine man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[nagging]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save relationship]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-said-she-doesnt-need-sex/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Said She Doesn't Need Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-07-14T06:57:02-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Has your Wife Said She Doesn't Need Sex? Have you also heard her say "you're needy", "I don't like being touched", "All you ever think about is sex"...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CZsCpa2ZCBU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Wife-Pulling-Away-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-long-since-you-had-sex-with-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Long??? (Since You Had Sex With Your Wife) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-07-30T08:28:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How long since you had sex with your wife??? It's the shameful story running over and over in our heads, eating away at our confidence the longer it goes on...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/8214lsDSUxY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_67970515_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[distant wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[turn-on your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/do-you-feel-powerless-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Do You Feel Powerless In Your Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-03-19T00:19:13-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Feel powerless in your marriage?  Every day I speak to successful men, great fathers, fit &amp; healthy, but with no confidence in their intimate relationships.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/GlIgekzJaZE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_11881189_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[be a confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[be a great man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[be the man i want to be]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confidence in a man]]></video:tag>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/4-late-stage-walkaway-wife-syndrome-behaviors/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[4 Late-Stage Walkaway Wife Syndrome Behaviors | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-03-13T15:48:29-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Wondering how to get your walkaway wife back? Do you still love her? Get clarity about your wife's actions. Stop being blindsided by Walkway Wife Syndrome. ]]></video:description>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-moved-out-how-can-i-be-happy-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Moved Out How Can I be Happy Again? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-03-12T18:16:59-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Feeling depressed after your wife moved out? We teach men how to FIND THEIR INHERENT VALUE AND CONFIDENCE in the discomfort of a crumbling relationship.  ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/FSmdL2jVU0k</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Man-After-Divorce-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife moved out]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-measure-your-attractiveness-as-a-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Measure Your Attractiveness As A Man | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-15T15:29:15-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What defines attractiveness in a man? Being Confident? Horny? Relaxed? How you measure your attractiveness as a man can cause the problem you're trying to fix.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/rBn_VDOGSCI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Attractive-Man-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[am I attractive?]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[are you an attractive man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[emotional attraction]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[what woman want in men]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-a-more-trustable-husband-during-times-of-stress/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be A More Trustable Husband During Times Of Stress | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-14T19:27:09-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you want to be a better husband to your wife? Being a trustable husband in the face of anxiety about your marriage requires relaxed, smooth intention.  ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/0V-OAMD-awg</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Husband-During-Stress-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[better husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[stressed wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/is-a-vulnerable-man-attractive/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Is A Vulnerable Man Attractive? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-14T19:20:08-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Vulnerability can be both a strength AND a weakness. Let's explore how a courageous, unapologetic, vulnerable man speak his truth attractively.    ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/AGzOUeYiEIc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Vulnerable-man-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[vulnerability in marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-left-me-now-what/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Left Me Now What? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-11T20:43:00-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How do you let go of your wife you love? Should you get a men's coach? Learn how men whose wife left have regained their happiness by connecting with other men.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/5DaiA7wdcYc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Wife-Left-Me-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happiness after divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[happiness after separation]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[next steps after divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife left]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-is-my-wife-not-interested-in-me-sexually-2/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Is My Wife Not Interested In Me Sexually? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-06T12:08:42-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Does your wife love you but not desire you? Having my wife not interested in me sexually sucked...Until I learned how to create and lead a new sexy energy.  ]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Wife-Not-Interested-In-Sex-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[enhance your sex life]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife won't have sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/valentines-day-when-your-wife-wants-space-what-do-you-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Valentine's Day When Your Wife Wants Space What Do You Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-07T20:55:16-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Knowing how to deal with Valentine's Day When Your Wife Wants Space is a minefield for a lot of the men we coach. What is the right thing to do?]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Distant-Wife-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[coping with Valentine's day]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[valentines day]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[what to do]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife wants space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-your-anger-affects-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Your Anger Affects Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-04T17:48:41-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Anger doesn't have to ruin your relationship. If anger affects your wife negatively be the man who knows what to do with the feeling behind the anger.  ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Dj67Jh-CC3I</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Angry-Husband-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-do-i-make-my-wife-fun-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Do I Make My Wife Fun Again? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-02-02T13:30:25-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your wife being a bump on a log? Is your relationship no longer exciting or passionate? I used masculine leadership to make my wife fun again.   ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/SE80nrA42hE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Make-Your-Wife-Fun-Again-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[boring wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[happy wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculine standards]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-says-shes-not-in-love-with-you-anymore/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What to Do When Your Wife Says She's Not in Love with You Anymore | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-07-02T02:18:54-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When she says she's not in love with you anymore it's a clear sign that something needs to change in your relationship for it to survive but what? And how?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CNslqliUXWI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Depositphotos_145815407_xl-2015-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[avoid divorce]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife not attracted anymore]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife unhappy]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-kind-of-man-your-wife-is-attracted-to/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Kind Of Man Your Wife Is Attracted To | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-06-27T17:40:43-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What's the "secret" solution to your waning sex life? Stop trying to fix her &amp; become a man who genuinely loves his life. That's who your wife is attracted to. ]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/A6rH6J57PJA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Confident-Man03-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife attracted to]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wife-is-not-sexually-attracted-to-me-anymore-what-can-i-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me Anymore What Can I Do? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-04-25T15:29:33-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I know how it hurts when your wife is not sexually attracted to you anymore. Find out how you can affect her libido &amp; how to lead her into intimacy again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/FvPMGAJ5KsU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Improve-your-sex-life-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[be your sexy self]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[better sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[getting what you want]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[improve your sex life]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[intimate sex in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[managing your feelings]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculine sexiness]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[meditation for men]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexual man]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-help-your-wife-want-sex-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Help Your Wife Want Sex Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-04-21T22:19:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Chasing your wife is a problem because the act of chasing is needy. Needy is creepy &amp; creepy gets you nowhere. So what do you do when your wife is pulling away? ]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/your-angry-wife-needs-your-help/</loc>
		<video:video>
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			<video:publication_date>2022-09-08T08:52:46-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you dealing with an angry wife and struggling to know how to handle her anger without causing more arguments? Here's Your superpower to help her relax...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do If Your Wife Wants To Leave Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-09-02T00:26:47-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It hurts when your wife wants to leave your marriage, we will do almost anything to fix it, but what's the most effective solution?]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife wants space]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-rebuild-trust-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Rebuild Trust In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-09-01T16:38:03-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you want to rebuild trust in your marriage, it starts with a cold, hard look at your own behavior. Women trust when they feel emotionally safe and secure...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/g6Qr46BCfDw</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[safe husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/can-you-fix-a-broken-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Can You Fix A Broken Marriage and Sex Life? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you a "fixer" hoping to fix a broken marriage like a misfiring engine? 1st you need to understand how relationships work. 2nd you need the proper tools.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-make-your-sexless-marriage-fun-and-flirty-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Make Your Sexless Marriage Fun And Flirty Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-08-20T06:06:57-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you stuck in a sexless marriage and wishing you knew how to reignite the fun, passion and sexual tension that you had together at the beginning?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/FV9yzZS6_gU</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/my-wife-said-im-done-with-you-and-this-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Said I'm Done With You And This Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-08-11T00:29:21-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife said I'm done with you &amp; this marriage &amp; suddenly your gut opened up &amp; a gaping hole of anxiety &amp; fear took hold - What now? How should you respond?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/JFiSketnun0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Wife-is-done-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[angry wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to re-attract your wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to save your marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[man help for marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife done]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife said I'm done]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife wants to separate]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-dog-gets-more-affection-than-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Dog Gets More Affection Than You]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-03-16T19:00:50+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Want more affection from your wife or partner? Wonder why she seems so cold and distant with you yet with other people AND THE DOG, she's happy, bubbly and g...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CSXTuh-idPM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Why-Your-Dog-Gets-More-Affection-Than-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>166</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/her-lack-of-desire-is-driving-me-crazy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Her Lack of Desire is Driving me Crazy!]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-12-30T11:36:26+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This video is an excerpt from one of the group coaching sessions we ran last year and covers one of the most common questions we get asked and one of the big...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/f3UqMY6sFZM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Her-Lack-of-Desire-is-Driving-me-Crazy.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>736</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-respond-to-your-wife-criticising-you-as-a-powerful-confident-man/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Respond to Your Wife Criticising You as a Powerful, Confident Man]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-07-01T22:42:12+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you struggle to know how to respond to your Wife Criticising you? Happy Wife Happy Life is a common mantra that could well be ruining the connection, pass...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/XzMoodpHgqc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Respond-to-Your-Wife-Criticising-You-as-a-Powerful-Confident-Man.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>390</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/your-marriage-trouble-is-fuel-for-your-growth/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Your Marriage Trouble is Fuel for Your Growth]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-02-02T07:16:42+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The quickest route to being a more confident masculine man is at our retreat. Join Steve and Dan in the UK this April: https://code.nbhbackup.com/2020-men...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/RA6ILtFzws0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Your-Marriage-Trouble-is-Fuel-for-Your-Growth.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>449</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-a-man-should-measure-his-mojo/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How a Man Should Measure His Mojo]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-10-15T06:05:04+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Self confidence, self esteem, being a confident man, being a sexy man and husband, these are all types of confidence that we refer to as Mojo. What level of...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-9rKn0DpbMc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-a-Man-Should-Measure-His-Mojo.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>215</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-1-reason-james-bond-doesnt-argue-with-women/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The #1 Reason James Bond Doesn't Argue With Women]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-06T22:03:15+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you find yourself in too many stupid arguments? Do you end up taking things personally all the time all just react to your emotions? How do you STOP takin...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/L0kFkAoKYKE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/The-1-Reason-James-Bond-Doesnt-Argue-With-Women.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>264</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The #1 Reason James Bond Doesn't Argue With Women]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-06T22:03:15+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you find yourself in too many stupid arguments? Do you end up taking things personally all the time all just react to your emotions? How do you STOP takin...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/L0kFkAoKYKE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/The-1-Reason-James-Bond-Doesnt-Argue-With-Women.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>264</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-being-wishy-washy-and-get-what-you-want/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Stop Being Wishy Washy and Get What You Want]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-04-15T05:28:43+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this video I explain how you can choose to change your mindset in a way that could change your relationship - maybe your whole life. What if you woke up t...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/g6Qr46BCfDw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Stop-Being-Wishy-Washy-and-Get-What-You-Want.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>270</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-handle-a-raging-14-year-old-like-a-ninja-dad/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Handle a Raging 14-Year-Old Like a Ninja Dad]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-08-18T21:50:13+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This video gives you the secret to effectively handling an angry, raging teenager and get the outcome you really want with him. Find out more about Jeff Alle...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/SU_kfl_ElY4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Handle-a-Raging-14-Year-Old-Like-a-Ninja-Dad.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>299</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/garrettp/">Garrett Prettyman</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-do-you-do-when-your-wife-wants-space/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Do You Do When Your Wife Wants Space??]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-06-03T15:42:24+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[She says "I need space! " or "You're smothering me!" or "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore!" This is what you need to THINK when this happens a...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CNslqliUXWI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/What-Do-You-Do-When-Your-Wife-Wants-Space.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>429</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-key-mindset-change-that-makes-you-instantly-more-masculine/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Key Mindset Change That Makes You Instantly More Masculine]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-11-03T23:17:45+00:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Unhappy Man Or Unhappy Marriage You Choose | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/she-said-shes-leaving-now-what/</loc>
		<video:video>
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			<video:publication_date>2020-10-11T01:34:50+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you have noticed your wife or partner becoming more and more distant and disconnected, maybe rude and disrespectful with you recently, then you may be exp...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>262</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/your-wife-is-always-unhappy-what-should-you-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Your Wife Is Always Unhappy, What Should You Do?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-04-23T02:40:16+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you living in a marriage and relationship where your Wife Is Always Unhappy? In this episode I talk about the mistake we make when trying to deal with th...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>248</video:duration>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Fix Your Unhappy Marriage: Be The Confident Man She Fell In Love With]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-10-09T17:16:37+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Learn how to become unwaveringly confident in yourself and your ability to lead your relationship back to the intimacy and affection you deserve. Do you feel...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/AqXTrUZli1A</video:player_loc>
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			<video:duration>192</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[3 Masculine Values You Need for More Intimacy...and Self Respect!]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-11-24T00:56:16+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Most guys who complain about lack of connection, intimacy and respect are battling a serious condition I'll call LOW VALUES SYNDROME. If you want to be an ef...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>440</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-your-purpose-as-a-man/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Know Your Purpose as a Man]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-12-27T02:07:24+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If this last year has been a tough year for you...know that you're not alone!! BUT...and this is important...what I want you to know is that making the next...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Know-Your-Purpose-as-a-Man.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>147</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
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			<video:publication_date>2017-07-20T15:28:37+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[A sexless marriage where your wife or partner doesn't want to spend time with you is a sign of an imbalance in your relationship. There is a way that you can...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Sexless-Marriage-How-to-Respond-in-a-Way-That-Will-Attract-Her-Back-to-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>407</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/you-can-attract-her/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[You Can Attract Her!]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2013-07-30T18:06:19+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[https://code.nbhbackup.com - We work hard at our careers and learning so many things in our lives, that it only makes sense that we also have to learn how...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>191</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Steve Horsmon - The Answer is Yes]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2013-04-08T20:24:07+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[https://code.nbhbackup.com - Introduction and Welcome message from Steve Horsmon of GoodGuys2GreatMen. Steve is a Certified Professional Life Coach with a...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Steve-Horsmon-The-Answer-is-Yes.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>206</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-let-go-of-a-crappy-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Let Go of a Crappy Marriage]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-01-19T00:44:47+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you living in an unhappy, miserable, crappy marriage with no trust, no connection, no intimacy, and very little care and love? In this episode I explain...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Let-Go-of-a-Crappy-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>342</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-jump-start-your-mojo-and-start-creating-more-connection/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Jump Start Your Mojo and Start Creating More Connection]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-09-16T02:29:40+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you spent the past 10, 20, 30 years devoted to your wife and family and now, suddenly the relationship is struggling and you're feeling lost at sea with...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZRhXjqp_S74</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Jump-Start-Your-Mojo-and-Start-Creating-More-Connection.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>181</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-get-your-mojo-back-3-crucial-mindset-switches/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Get Your Mojo Back - 3 Crucial Mindset Switches]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-10-06T01:32:47+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When your relationship is struggling or another big life event is bearing down on you and threatening to turn everything upside down, it's easy for us to get...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Did Your Wife Call You “Controlling”?  Here’s Probably Why]]></video:title>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:duration>277</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Is My Wife Having an Affair? What Should I Do Now??]]></video:title>
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			<video:duration>687</video:duration>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to BE a Man Who is Powerfully Confident &amp; Not Just Act Like One]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2016-01-10T01:06:17+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partn...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Build Confidence by Getting S#!t Done...Even When You're Sick]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[This episode explains how to become more confident and feel better about yourself by making commitments to getting things done. My new book Straight Talk Too...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:publication_date>2016-10-15T03:58:50+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When your wife or partner is upset or angry, many men will try to fix the problem. That's not what she needs you to do. Watch this short video to find out ho...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Increase Your Sex Appeal by Stopping This (and starting this)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-06-30T01:27:38+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This is the secret men need to know about increasing their sex appeal, attracting their woman and having more intimacy. This could save your marriage if you...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[The Perfect Time to Ask a Woman for Sex]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-08-05T01:45:43+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This episode gives you tips and insight to becoming more rejection proof and confident in asking for what you want. If you are having trouble getting the sex...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Subconscious Mistake Which Erodes Her Trust in You]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you ever said something to your wife or partner with the intention of making them feel bad, to hurt their feelings? Do you feel like she doesn't respect...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Three Traits of a Sexually Satisfied Man]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you sexually satisfied in your relationship? Do you want more sex and intimacy? Sexually Satisfied Men Share These Three Basic Traits: 1. High level of s...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[This video explains why you can't trust your feelings and how to become more aware of your emotional world and the THINKING that causes your feelings. Men wh...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Feel More Confident &amp; Strong in Your Marriage]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[This video is about why LIKING YOURSELF is critical to feeling confident and strong. When we feel sad, rejected, disrespected or abandoned, it's usually beca...]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Feel-More-Confident-Strong-in-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>220</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[This is a deep conversation between Alison and I about many subjects affecting men and boys in the current climate of tension and distrust between men and wo...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your marriage struggling, do you feel criticised, challenged and need to keep defending yourself? In this video I talk about the most important thing that...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>346</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Have Fewer Arguments, Less Drama and More Sex]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-11-05T04:15:49+00:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:duration>336</video:duration>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Miserable Marriage to Best Day Ever...How?]]></video:title>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Secret to More Fun in Your Marriage]]></video:title>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[The "Science" Behind Her Wanting Sex Again With You]]></video:title>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you calm and confident that you can CREATE all the love, affection and connection you want in your life and relationship? Or are you nervous and unsure a...]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-help-her-feel-more-emotionally-safe/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Help Her Feel More Emotionally Safe]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-12-02T04:26:55+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This episode graphically describes how EMOTIONAL SAFETY is one of the most important relationship insights you need with your woman. A secure, confident man...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[My Wife Is Happy Around Everyone Else But Me]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-03-15T17:46:49+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The most common email we receive from men starts like this... "I think my story is probably different from most other guys you talk to.  My wife and I mostly...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[What if I Become a Better Man and She STILL Leaves Me?]]></video:title>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Teach Her to Stop Criticizing You]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[This episode is titled how to give her space without giving up because so many of us struggle to know how to deal with those three little words...those 3 wor...]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[This video explains why the concept of "hope" is ineffective for men who want to "save their marriage" and what kind of hope they need instead. I want you to...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Men Lose Their Attractiveness]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[How did your relationship get to this point? Maybe you just want more sex and affection. Maybe you're dealing with a partner who avoids talking and needs lot...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/rBn_VDOGSCI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-Men-Lose-Their-Attractiveness.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>465</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/stuck-in-a-miserable-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Stuck In A Miserable Marriage?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-10-05T17:22:16+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you feeling stuck in a miserable marriage? Does the state of your relationship make you anxious and unhappy? I thought for years that my marriage was the...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/W8qCnFb40_E</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Stuck-In-A-Miserable-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>222</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-handle-the-silent-treatment-and-what-youre-doing-to-cause-it/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Handle The Silent Treatment (And What You're Doing To Cause It)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-12-16T20:45:44+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you get so frustrated with your partner that you avoid speaking or interacting with her? Does she give you the silent treatment? Do you feel like there's...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/1vFPOd1Ay7s</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-To-Handle-The-Silent-Treatment-And-What-Youre-Doing-To-Cause-It.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>329</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why You Should NEVER Use This "C" Word on Your Woman]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-02-22T22:30:05+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you ever called your wife "crazy"? This video explains why this is one of the worst words you can use in your marriage. If you're trying to save your ma...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/hZB8ZcgPmhw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Why-You-Should-NEVER-Use-This-22C22-Word-on-Your-Woman.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>343</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-measure-your-manhood-correctly/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Measure Your Manhood Correctly]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-06-28T02:49:01+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What is the measure of great man? This video tells you ONE method to know if you are being the man you want to be and why a great man must have a solid found...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/QrZghqAr4-I</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Measure-Your-Manhood-Correctly.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>305</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-self-help-may-not-save-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Self Help May Not Save Your Marriage]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-03-24T04:19:20+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When your relationship is struggling or you're finding yourself feeling down, stressed, angry or frustrated a lot of the time and you're trying so hard to tu...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/6t5dVodhEwY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Why-Self-Help-May-Not-Save-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>156</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-instead-of-arguing-about-toxic-masculinity/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What to Do Instead of Arguing About Toxic Masculinity]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-02-03T01:26:05+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Toxic masculinity is being debated A LOT right now and yet the divisions between the differing sides of the argument seem to just get deeper. Most of the dis...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Mzds2x6xEAo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/What-to-Do-Instead-of-Arguing-About-Toxic-Masculinity.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>281</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-mistake-of-treating-her-as-your-equal/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Mistake of Treating Her as Your Equal]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-05-27T22:58:39+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife is frustrated and upset about something and you're done dealing with this all the time. Why can't she see the simple solution...you've explained it...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Y0QrCZ2fYNw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/The-Mistake-of-Treating-Her-as-Your-Equal.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>314</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/save-your-marriage-this-is-how-to-first-save-yourself/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Save Your Marriage?  This is How to First Save Yourself!]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-11-12T02:11:20+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This video tells you how to become more secure and confident in the face of divorce or separation. We explain why you're THINKING is the key and how to chang...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/NxINg0ziX5Y</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Save-Your-Marriage-This-is-How-to-First-Save-Yourself.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>459</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-is-a-high-value-man-why-is-it-important/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What is a High Value Man? &amp; Why is it Important?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-01-05T13:28:17+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Here's the link to the April 2020 UK Retreat I mention in the video: https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-uk-mens-retreat-2020/ "Every decision...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/pIyUbDnSD6U</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/What-is-a-High-Value-Man-Why-is-it-Important.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>516</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/if-momma-aint-happy-so-what/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[If Momma Ain't Happy...So What??]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-12-28T17:56:09+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There are some common sayings that have caused a lot of damage in regards to how men show up and lead in their romantic relationships over the recent decades...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZY9KCXZ0odA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/If-Momma-Aint-HappySo-What.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>242</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-a-more-confident-man-it-starts-with-this/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to BE a More Confident Man (It Starts With This)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2021-01-17T00:35:13+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you're a man dealing with some form of struggle or crisis in your life, whether that's your relationship, your family, your work or maybe a health issue.....]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/UXkVpK3OUEM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-be-a-Confident-Man-Without-Being-Selfish-1.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>290</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-youll-be-happier-if-you-divorce/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Know if You'll Be Happier if You Divorce]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-06-10T01:45:54+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you wondering whether you should divorce? Are you unhappy in your marriage? Do you feel like she's always pissed at you? You're walking on eggshells wond...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/PuxfapmoSIM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Know-if-Youll-Be-Happier-if-You-Divorce.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>250</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-one-thing-you-need-to-feel-more-calm-clear-and-confident/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The ONE THING You Need to Feel More Calm, Clear and Confident]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-04-29T01:01:19+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This video explains why your VALUES and MASCULINE OPERATING PRINCIPLES (or the LACK of them) are the key to your confidence, happiness and peacefulness. With...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/dloy8YKM4FE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/The-ONE-THING-You-Need-to-Feel-More-Calm-Clear-and-Confident.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>208</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-recapture-your-mojo-and-overcome-your-secret-fear-you-know-which-one-i-mean/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Recapture Your Mojo and Overcome Your Secret Fear (you know which one I mean)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-10-13T22:15:14+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[A man's deepest fear is usually not being seen as "strong enough". It's a fear of being seen as a "pussy" or "weak" compared to other men. This fear can be e...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/5V8mfuMOBp0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Recapture-Your-Mojo-and-Overcome-Your-Secret-Fear-you-know-which-one-I-mean.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>129</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/are-you-horngry-and-is-it-ruining-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Are You Horngry?  (and is it ruining your marriage?)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-05-17T02:50:06+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you wake up every day feeling horny but you get rebuffed or rejected when you try to initiate sex? Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, passion a...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/8214lsDSUxY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Are-You-Horngry-and-is-it-ruining-your-marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>340</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-become-so-confident-that-you-can-turn-down-sexual-intimacy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Become So Confident That You Can Turn Down Sexual Intimacy]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2016-12-11T00:08:16+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Would you ever Turn Down Sexual Intimacy with your wife? What if you were so confident in yourself and your relationship that you could turn down sex and kno...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/IEMODG6uEnM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Become-So-Confident-That-You-Can-Turn-Down-Sexual-Intimacy.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>418</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-more-confident-and-happy-by-stopping-this-one-habit/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Be More Confident and Happy by Stopping This One Habit]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-09-08T21:27:56+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I explain why TRYING TO BE RIGHT is your biggest source of unrest and unhappiness. Why do we need to convince others they are wrong? Why do w...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/cvilJE0TXoM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Be-More-Confident-and-Happy-by-Stopping-This-One-Habit.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>190</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-reduce-your-marriage-anxiety/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Reduce Your Marriage Anxiety]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2019-01-13T14:08:19+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When it comes to the acute type of marriage anxiety in men who discover she's not happy or loves you but isn't IN LOVE with you, our problem is often our THI...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3Q5pltmqkAo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Reduce-Your-Marriage-Anxiety.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>297</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/do-women-want-sex-as-much-as-men-do/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men Do?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-03-04T11:33:07+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Many men feel like they have a higher sex drive than their partner does, but the feedback we get is that women are very sexual, so if that's the case, why do...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/RwfqZ3RpqcY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Do-Women-Want-Sex-As-Much-As-Men-Do.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>410</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/unhappy-wife-and-marriage-lets-get-your-head-straight-now/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Unhappy Wife and Marriage?  Let's Get Your Head Straight Now]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2017-05-07T14:25:17+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife wants space, she feels no connection or she loves you but isn't "in love" with you. What do you do next? This video tells you what you need to THIN...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/w8rAKDprrsw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Unhappy-Wife-and-Marriage-Lets-Get-Your-Head-Straight-Now.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>293</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-does-confident-masculinity-look-like/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Does Confident Masculinity Look Like?]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-04-24T07:34:04+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Does your marriage or relationship feel disconnected and strained? Are you wishing for more closeness, affection, fun and flirtation? In this video I talk ab...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/fXz_V7idrwc</video:player_loc>
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	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
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	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be A More Confident Husband | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-05-09T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you unhappily married? Has intimacy left your relationship? Deciding if you should stay or go doesn't have to be overly complicated.  ]]></video:description>
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		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
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	<url>
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		<video:video>
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			<video:publication_date>2021-01-10T02:38:26+00:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-caused-your-wife-to-become-distant/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Caused Your Wife To Become Distant? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-02-02T00:00:23-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Confused about what caused your wife to become distant? Learn how to lead the relationship back to a kind, loving, trusting and passionate marriage again...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/EQDwHraun5A</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife overreacts]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/give-her-nothing-for-valentines-day-take-something-away-instead/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Give Her NOTHING for Valentines Day (take something away instead)]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[You want to be happy this valentines day right? But maybe you find yourself unsure what to do to celebrate with your partner or wife. In this video I talk ab...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ejI7k4BDz6Q</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/give-her-nothing-for-valentines-day-take-something-away-instead.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>326</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-overreacting-and-stay-in-your-lane/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Stop Overreacting and Stay in YOUR Lane]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2018-10-20T21:07:12+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This video explain how and why you must learn to stay in your lane and not over react to things outside your control. Success in your life and relationship r...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Jj5-eokqJqU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/How-to-Stop-Overreacting-and-Stay-in-YOUR-Lane.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>176</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/do-women-need-to-feel-connected-to-have-sex-shana-james-and-alexis-shepperd/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Do Women Need to Feel Connected to Have Sex? - Shana James and Alexis Shepperd]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2020-11-23T13:25:38+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you get confused and frustrated by all the different information out there about what you need to do to create the right environment for your partner to w...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/RON--qxetwY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Do-Women-Need-to-Feel-Connected-to-Have-Sex-Shana-James-and-Alexis-Shepperd.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>1312</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/alexis/">Alexis Shepperd</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-wife-wants-you-to-have-more-confidence/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Wife Wants You To Have More Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-08-18T01:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Yes your wife wants you to have more confidence &amp; almost every man I know (Including me) finds this frustrating, but first let me explain why so you understand.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/cFzIS5MXOpI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Strong-Husband-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[being a confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Being A man your wife wants]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[creating safety in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculinity in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[no more weak husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[speaking strongly]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[stand up for wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/handling-your-wifes-emotions-with-confidence/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Handling Your Wife's Emotions With Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-08-11T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Handling your wife's changing emotions with confidence is essential for a loving, respectful marriage, but why and how do you do it?]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Lack-Of-Clarity-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive masculine behaviors]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[clear headed man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[masculine frame]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[no longer at wife's mercy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[re-attract wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save your marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[stop walking on eggshells]]></video:tag>
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			<video:publication_date>2024-06-23T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Confront Her Emotional Affair | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-06-22T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Stuck in limbo with a wife who is having an emotional affair with another man? How you respond to this situation calmly, confidently, facing it head on is key..]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[I Want Her To Love Me Is That Wrong? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-07-04T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's a common question we receive from men. Is it wrong to want her to love you? How should you respond when your relationship is not loving &amp; affectionate?]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Defensiveness A leading Cause Of Divorce | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-06-30T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Recognize the behaviors leading to divorce. Stop defensiveness by not taking things personally. Strong loving men take their power back by assuming the best.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/i-need-space-what-does-she-mean/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[I Need Space What Does She Mean? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-06-21T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Did your wife or girlfriend recently say, "I need space"? How you understand &amp; respond to this moment in your life and relationship is key to what happens next.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-hRpk5_GdAY</video:player_loc>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife doesn't want to be with me]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/reliable-advice-to-help-you-save-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Reliable Advice To Help You Save Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-06-14T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you a man looking for reliable advice to help you save your marriage? After over 10 years supporting men like you, I can tell you what advice works and what doesn't.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Man-Who-Saved-Marriage-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/unaffectionate-wife-3-mistakes-to-avoid/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Unaffectionate Wife? 3 Mistakes To Avoid | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-09-07T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In a marriage or relationship that is unaffectionate? Find out the common mistakes men make that affect your wife's desire to be affectionate with you...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/EpxidBVwp-I</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Unaffectionate-Wife-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Being A Strong Man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[building trust in marriage]]></video:tag>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[unaffectionate wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-feeling-so-rejected-by-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling So Rejected By Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-09-04T01:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Feeling rejected by your wife is not fun, neither is feeling disconnected, lonely &amp; resentful. How can you create a loving, passionate, fun relationship again?]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Rejected-husband-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[get your happiness back]]></video:tag>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-your-marriage-is-over/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know If Your Marriage Is Over | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-08-29T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Has your wife said "I'm done"? Worrying whether your marriage is over can be totally overwhelming &amp; then we do things that make it worse. But there is hope...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/tZAPqLuuKoU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Wife-Done-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[can marriage be fixed]]></video:tag>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-do-i-convince-my-wife-not-to-leave-our-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Do I Convince My Wife Not to Leave Our Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-08-22T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Your wife wants to leave your marriage &amp; now you're desperately trying to fix the problem &amp; convince her to change her mind, but things seem to be getting worse]]></video:description>
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			<video:tag><![CDATA[she's leaving what to do]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/when-you-re-attract-your-wife-dont-do-this/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[When You Re-Attract Your Wife Don't Do This | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-23T17:00:13-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When a guy gets about 8 weeks into my program, he is typically feeling very clear and confident about many things. He is gaining a new perspective about who he is, what he wants and what he deserves.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/PqwR-U0o-Yk</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/unlocking-your-wifes-sex-drive-2/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Unlocking Your Wife's Sex Drive | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-22T17:00:26-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Discover how to break free from self-consciousness and bring passion back into your marriage. Learn why dirty talk isn’t just about sex but about deep connection, confidence, and unapologetic masculinity.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/DmYGL0iugKs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Infrequent-Sex-With-Your-Wife.-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-happens-in-a-marriage-when-the-man-becomes-more-secure/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Happens In A Marriage When The Man Becomes More Secure? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-21T17:00:25-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[One reason I do what I do is the joy of watching another guy's "lights coming on" for the first time.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/NIbpxaZs2_M</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Strong-Husband-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-kind-of-man-gets-all-the-affection-he-wants/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Kind Of Man Gets All The Affection He Wants? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-20T17:00:33-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What I’m about to tell you is so mind-numbingly basic you will probably think to yourself, “Wow, Einstein, is that the best you could come up with?”]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/eKat-ILfkrA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Depositphotos_199200850_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-husbands-create-low-libido-in-their-wives/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Husbands Create Low Libido In Their Wives | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-19T17:00:01-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Despite my Mr. Cool persona outside of the home at work and with friends, I could turn into quite an annoying "hummingbird" of a man.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/TPYzLIatnM0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-Husbands-Create-Low-Libido-In-Their-Wives.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-confidently-deal-with-infidelity-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Confidently Deal With Infidelity In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-18T17:00:47-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This is specifically for the husband in a rocky marriage where you feel boundaries are being crossed. And for some reason you haven’t figured out what to do about it yet.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/_kSRHeaSRck</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Affectionate-Wife-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/if-you-want-more-affection-stop-these-3-things/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[If You Want More Affection Stop These 3 Things | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-14T10:10:57-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Feeling exhausted &amp; frustrated by the lack of attention &amp; affection from your wife? Learn how to stop the rot &amp; start creating the relationship you really want.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/xsJ5InFlaPY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Depositphotos_12619829_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[affection]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[intimacy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marrriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-only-couples-counseling-video-ill-ever-make/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Only "Couples Counseling" Video I'll Ever Make | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-13T17:00:39-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The current version of this marriage has two insecure, immature and frustrated people trying to solve a "problem". These two people don't need "couples advice" and they don't need to "save" anything.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3Xtv5MTmfiU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Depositphotos_145623603_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/seven-days-to-a-better-relationship/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Seven Days to a Better Relationship | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-12T17:00:53-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's about the power of brevity and the power of listening. This is NOT about minimizing a woman's complaints or her endless venting about her day. It's NOT about how to dismiss people.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/uB65KO-9xFo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/Lack-Of-Clarity-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-wife-has-asked-for-space/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Wife Has Asked For Space | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-11T17:00:39-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There are some good reasons that someone asks for space in a relationship &amp; some not so good ones too. Want to know the what's behind your wife's request?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Z6ZLm-Wx1jk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Depositphotos_154568292_XL-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-the-state-of-your-marriage-overwhelming-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop The State Of Your Marriage Overwhelming You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-06T02:43:17-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Constantly thinking about the state of your marriage is exhausting. Stopping the overwhelming feelings doesn't mean giving up, it requires getting stronger...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/JVCS3iZwflo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Depositphotos_91262312_XL-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[anxiety]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[overwhelm]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wanting-her-vs-needing-her-why-its-important-to-know-the-difference/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wanting Her Vs Needing Her (&amp; Why It's Important To Know The Difference) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-12-26T03:44:27-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is it important to know the difference between wanting her vs needing her? Should you state your needs? What if that always receives a negative response?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Z6ZLm-Wx1jk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Depositphotos_47673889_XL-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[desires]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[neediness]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needs]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationships]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wants]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/should-i-get-my-separated-wife-a-christmas-gift/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Should I Get My Separated Wife A Christmas Gift? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-12-15T19:00:00-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When you're separated from your wife it's confusing to know what to do around the holidays &amp; special occasions such as Christmas, birthdays &amp; anniversaries...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/gWdTcIrCK7E</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Depositphotos_166680694_XL-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[getting her gifts]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[giving her space at christmas]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[high value man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[managing marriage anxiety]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[needy husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[removing pressure]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[runnaway wife at christmas]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation during christmas]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Should I get her a christmas gift?]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[stop being needy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[When to not give her gifts]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-break-free-from-a-sexless-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Break Free From A Sexless Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-11-30T01:31:41-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Breaking free from a sexless marriage can feel impossible when you still love your wife &amp; want to protect your kids. So how do you make the right decision..?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/PyTCVIataTk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Depositphotos_190388170_XL-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Masculinity]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[separation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/unlocking-your-wifes-sex-drive/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Unlocking Your Wife's Sex Drive | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-11-26T02:12:11-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[What to do if you're living in a marriage where your sex drive and your wife's sex drive seem to be mismatched.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/DmYGL0iugKs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Depositphotos_199200850_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[confident man]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[dirty talk]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[low libido]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex drive]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexuality]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-reconcile-a-marriage-headed-for-divorce/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Reconcile A Marriage Headed For Divorce | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-11-19T02:18:13-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When your marriage is headed for divorce, how do you deal with the constant emotional turmoil? What works to reconcile your differences with your wife?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/XYH1RwxDWfU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Man-After-Divorce-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[divorce]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[Marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[reconciliation]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save my marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[unhappy marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/want-more-intimacy-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Want More Intimacy In Your Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-09-30T02:05:43-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Want more intimacy in your marriage but seem to the the only one who does? Complaining about it doesn't help, so what can you do that works?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/uB65KO-9xFo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/Depositphotos_204654086_ds-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attraction]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[better sex life]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[communication]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[connection]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[emotional intimacy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[intimacy]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[low sex marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sex]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[sexless marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/feeling-trapped-in-an-unhappy-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Feeling Trapped In An Unhappy Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-09-12T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Feeling trapped in an unhappy marriage can take over every area of your life if you let it. Learn how to take back control and start feeling confident again...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/U0tJfwNmTIc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Marriage-Limbo-Land-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[being a man she won't leave]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[get my wife to be faithful]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to end divorce uncertainty]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to make her choose me]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to win wife back]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[marriage limbo]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[uncertainty in marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[what can a husband do]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[what works when she wants out]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife on the fence]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-act-when-your-wife-wants-to-leave/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Act When Your Wife Wants To Leave | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-09-08T19:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Facing the possibility that your wife wants to leave your marriage? What's the right action to take to save your relationship &amp; calm the churning in your gut..?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/hrPR-ENnzsw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Man-facing-divorce-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[attractive husband]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[calm divorce anxiety]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[get your wife back]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to act when she wants out]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[how to attract wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[man advice for marriage trouble]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[reattract wife]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[save marriage]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife pulling back]]></video:tag>
			<video:tag><![CDATA[wife wants to leave]]></video:tag>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-changing-your-marriage-needs-coaching-not-therapy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Changing Your Marriage Needs Coaching Not Therapy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-05T17:00:09-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[One of my favorite fiction books is The Art of Racing in the Rain, by Garth Stein. I lost count of how many times this book made my eyeballs swell up...pushing back tears.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/wHxREPsoYUk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Why-Changing-Your-Marriage-Needs-Coaching-Not-Therapy.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-a-confident-man-even-when-youre-being-called-a-narcissist/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be A Confident Man Even When You're Being Called A Narcissist | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-04T17:00:39-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This always confuses guys at first. Just the phrase "doesn't give a crap" makes them feel like an asshole. That's part of their problematic "good guy" social programming.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/UP8RU1CGFOQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Be-A-Confident-Man-Even-When-Youre-Being-Called-A-Narcissist.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-men-lose-their-sexual-power/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Men Lose Their Sexual Power]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2024-07-15T10:37:09+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Is your relationship lacking the kind of sexual excitement, tension and flirtation that you really want? Do you wish you knew how to bring that passion and d...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ykwv2T6bT4k</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-Men-Lose-Their-Sexual-Power.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>386</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-common-habit-that-keeps-men-from-feeling-confident/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Common Habit That Keeps Men From Feeling Confident | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-02T17:00:51-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you tired of saying “I’m sorry” and getting nothing in return. A common complaint men have about women is that they never say they’re sorry…for anything…ever.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/lLwLtHo07-g</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_222859066_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-one-fear-high-achieving-husbands-cant-admit/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The One Fear High Achieving Husbands Can't Admit | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-01T17:00:51-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[One day a man I met told me an embarrassing secret. "I feel respected, appreciated and admired just about everywhere else in my life...except when I get home!"]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/EOtmBjiRRx4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Rejected-husband-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/identifying-whats-causing-your-lack-of-motivation/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Identifying What's Causing Your Lack Of Motivation | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-28T17:00:53-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The wrong mindset can rob you of the future you secretly want. It holds your future hostage until you pay the ransom. It’s a steep price. You must make a decision and a choice to change it – no matter what.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/sycqSZqPZ44</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/Depositphotos_190749708_ds-opt-1024x683-2.webp</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Your Wife Really Needs From You When She's Upset | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-27T17:00:37-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Life is an experience of ups and downs…highs and lows. But if you don’t know where YOUR LANE is, you’ll drive all over the freaking road feeling out of control…a victim of circumstances.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Xl6Y0UpTCHU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Depositphotos_336871072_XL-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-make-your-wife-feel-safe-to-be-intimate-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Make Your Wife Feel Safe To Be Intimate Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-26T17:00:44-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Working with horses has taught me a ton about women and relationships in general. Everything makes total sense now.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/SG0Vfb8y9Gs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/Depositphotos_204654086_ds-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-confidence-looks-like-in-a-struggling-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Confidence Looks Like In A Struggling Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-25T17:00:16-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[A man's secret fear of divorce is one example of outcome dependence. It's not just that he desires a long, healthy, happy marriage...he absolutely, positively requires it.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/glzwH3a5u24</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Improve-Your-Relationship-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-the-sexual-spark-dies-in-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why The Sexual Spark Dies In Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-24T17:00:36-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, I tend to coach and write about the things I most need to heal within myself. And that leads me to the subject of sex. I’m writing this article more for me than for you, but you’re welcome to eavesdrop on my internal conversation.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CAMkWF3yaMU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/Husband-Wants-More-Sex-1024x683-1.webp</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-you-have-irreconcilable-differences-or-youre-just-pissed-off/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Know if You Have "Irreconcilable Differences"? (or you're just pissed off) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-04T17:00:16-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Those are the types of things you hear in a marriage a few months (or years) before someone finds themselves with divorce forms in their hand...holding a blue ink pen.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/npGu_jr5BjI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-to-Know-if-You-Have-22Irreconcilable-Differences22.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-reason-intimacy-fades-in-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Reason Intimacy Fades In Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-03T17:00:51-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If the intimacy in your marriage is lower than you'd like or non-existent, there's a fundamental aspect of your relationship that is currently broken and that aspect is TRUST.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/5ZB26J4YSzw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Reason-Intimacy-Fades-In-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/dont-ignore-this-divorce-warning-sign/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Don't Ignore This Divorce Warning Sign | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-01T17:00:20-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Why doesn't anyone want to talk about this subtle, sneaky cause of divorce? Because they are STONEWALLING! This is the 3rd predictor of divorce and one of the hardest to fix.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ssg5utARKqk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Dont-Ignore-This-Divorce-Warning-Sign.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-immediately-feel-more-confident/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Immediately Feel More Confident | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-29T17:00:37-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's a crippling habit that fills a man with doubt, uncertainty and indecision. It creates a general mindset of inadequacy and sometimes even ENVY.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/NCMtFlPO_Yo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Immediately-Feel-More-Confident.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/when-your-marriage-is-falling-apart-heres-what-helps/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart Here's What Helps | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-28T17:00:05-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The thoughts that go through your mind may sound something like this: "This sucks. Why is this happening? Why didn't she say something? What a loser I must be! This is going to be so horrible for everyone. I hate that this is happening. This just may kill me."]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/GoB-NTcwBME</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/When-Your-Marriage-Is-Falling-Apart-Heres-What-Helps.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-men-who-get-what-they-want-have-this-figured-out/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Men Who Get What They Want Have This Figured Out | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-27T17:02:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The secret to ending suffering is realizing that we can never get enough of what we don't really need to be happy.When a man finally figures this out, his energy changes. He focuses on improving himself, his attitude, his mission and his mojo.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Izja2fCBwc0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Men-Who-Get-What-They-Want-Have-This-Figured-Out.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-when-you-feel-betrayed-disrespected-and-duped-by-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do When You Feel Betrayed Disrespected And Duped By Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-26T17:00:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, First, I want to invite you to our group coaching call this week at 12pm mountain time on Thursday 5th September, the topic of the call is "How do I really know who I am?"]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/s9sfdOOOfNM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-To-Do-When-You-Feel-Betrayed-Disrespected-And-Duped-By-Your-Wife.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-bring-enthusiasm-passion-back-to-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Bring Enthusiasm &amp; Passion Back To Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-25T17:00:33-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, I know a secret that sabotages sex lives around the world...including mine and yours. And in this article and video I'm going to clearly explain what it is.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/KE8DHqAFfWc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Bring-Enthusiasm-Passion-Back-To-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-simplest-way-to-be-more-attractive-to-her-or-anyone-for-that-matter/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Simplest Way to Be More Attractive to Her (or anyone for that matter) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-24T17:00:55-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The reason we get shitty days and shitty relationships is mostly...and SIMPLY...because of our shitty thinking. Shitty thinking makes us anxious, angry, short-tempered, agitated, annoyed, disappointed and judgmental as f*ck.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/E0I9YTjm-po</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Simplest-Way-to-Be-More-Attractive-to-Her.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-your-dad-didnt-teach-you-about-keeping-your-marriage-sexy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Your Dad Didn't Teach You About Keeping Your Marriage Sexy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-23T17:00:47-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In 2013, I asked a popular men's coach (Alex Allman) why he thought my wife never gave me the kind (and amount) of intimacy I wanted. He looked me right in the eye...almost amused, and said...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/KqCfCeiP4SA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-Your-Dad-Didnt-Teach-You-About-Keeping-Your-Marriage-Sexy.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-we-ing-and-should-ing-on-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Stop "We-ing" and "Should-ing" on Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-22T17:00:22-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Decades ago when I was in corporate America I attended a leadership training class. The instructor opened with a joke.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/2QrDM3B2yS8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-to-Stop-22We-ing22-and-22Should-ing22-on-Your-Wife.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-ignoring-your-masculinity-turns-off-the-passion-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Ignoring Your Masculinity Turns Off The Passion In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-19T17:00:21-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this article I tell you about another problem that arises when you start to gain confidence and stop over-reacting. What do you do when she says, "You just don't care how I feel!"]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/LgnFx6xGIps</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Why-Ignoring-Your-Masculinity-Turns-Off-The-Passion-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-you-should-stay-or-go-or-something-even-better/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Know if You Should Stay...or Go...or Something Even Better! | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-25T17:00:13-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's become "in fashion" to be dependent on other people's ability to make us feel good. It's become a badge of honor to be a victim.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/basyXRTqYN8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Heart-Centered-Leader-Course-Introduction.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-only-thing-that-works-to-save-a-failing-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Only Thing That Works To Save A Failing Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-24T17:00:07-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Men often ask me about my “success rate” when it comes to helping them fix their relationships. And that’s a red flag right from the start.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3X_dOLT-460</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Depositphotos_145623603_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wife-is-not-attracted-to-you-what-now/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Wife Is Not Attracted To You What Now? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-23T17:00:02-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Bill is one of those “nice guy husbands”. He is strikingly familiar to me and models a former version of myself. By all appearances, he’s got the world by the balls.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/6QHWhY3A4bw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Wife-is-done-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/he-went-from-never-having-sex-to-turning-it-down-true-story/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[He Went From Never Having Sex To Turning It Down - True Story! | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-21T17:00:50-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, True story...I couldn’t make this stuff up. Meet “Brian”. Hardworking, kind-hearted, dutiful father and under-sexed husband of 15 years.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/CQEUwwT9q_s</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Wife-Not-Interested-In-Sex-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-more-intimacy-closeness-affection-with-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create More Intimacy Closeness &amp; Affection With Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-18T17:00:38-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In 1998 I came up with an argument for 3 times more sex than I was having at the time. I actually had "data". I did some research. Then I presented my bullet-proof case for increasing the frequency of sex by a factor of three!]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/YwOltqvKWYQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Depositphotos_19061151_ds-e1572433031210-2.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-create-a-happy-connected-sexual-relationship/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create A Happy Connected Sexual Relationship | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-04-17T17:00:46-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I want to talk with you about creating the kind of life and relationship you really, really want. We seek permission – acceptance – reciprocation – validation.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/yT04XmFYOLY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Depositphotos_327010820_xl-2015-opt-scaled.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/do-you-want-your-marriage-to-be-more-sexual/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Do You Want Your Marriage To Be More Sexual? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:duration>307</video:duration>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you feel like your wife holds all the cards when it comes to getting the intimacy, affection and sex that you want in your marriage? Want to know how to crack the feminine code to more intimacy and sex in your relationship?]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Turn The Pain From The End Of Your Marriage Into Optimism | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you struggling to be able to see a positive future at the moment? Does the potential end of your relationship seem to have taken all meaning and reason to go on away from you?]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you feel like you get triggered and upset too easily and too often? Maybe you're facing a sexless marriage, or a possible divorce, or maybe you have a boos or work colleague who knows just how to push your buttons?]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be Confident When You Don't Feel It | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-02T03:17:19-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you confident in yourself in most areas of your life except around your wife? Maybe you close million dollar deals in the day but yet at home, just one critical look or comment can make you feel useless?]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create Attraction In Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you feeling frustrated by the lack of connection, affection and intimacy in your marriage? Do you want to know how to create attraction in your wife (and what causes her to lose attraction)?]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Hold Women Accountable In A Failing Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you dealing with a daily sense of frustration and annoyance at the state of your relationship? Does it seem like you're the only one who cares and wants something better?]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Fix The Lack Of Intimacy In Your Marriage]]></video:title>
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			<video:duration>263</video:duration>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I explain why this happens, what causes it and what we need to think and do differently to start changing things and creating the relationship we really want.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Sabotaging The Intimacy You Want | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about an example of how men do this, how we act in ways that turn off, annoy, shut down and push away the very thing that we want the most - her attention, her affection, her desire and her sexuality.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Reclaim Your Power in Marriage]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-10T21:32:03+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you feel powerless in your marriage? Is the constant distance, criticism and rejection grinding you down? Do you want to know how to reclaim your power in...]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Understand Why Passion Fades In Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I demonstrate one of the most common ways that this happens, plus what to think and do differently to start changing it starting today.]]></video:description>
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			<video:publication_date>2025-03-15T09:11:50+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you feel like you're always walking on eggshells in your marriage? Do you feel like you can't be honest and have certain types of conversations because it...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Build Your Self Confidence To Be Unshakeable | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the very first thing we have to do as men before we can achieve this consistent state of mountain lion cool and calm confidence.]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about something that happened to me which triggered an angry response, plus what to think and do differently to respond more calmly and confidently in the future.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Rebuild Your Wife's Trust In You]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-03-26T15:00:14+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you confused about the lack of kindness, respect and affection in your marriage? It's often a symptom of a loss of trust that your wife had in you. Do yo...]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Build Self Confidence You Can Trust]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you confident in all areas of your life except with your wife? Do you wish you could know how to build self confidence that you can trust around her no m...]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you frustrated and confused about how to attract your wife and have a more intimate and sexually active relationship? Maybe you've heard that your wife d...]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the most common reason that guys like you get stuck in this situation, plus what to do differently to start making a difference today.]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Change The Repeating Cycles In Your Marriage]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you frustrated by the repeating patterns of getting closer and more connected followed by some disagreement and then distance and disconnection again? Do...]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about a key concept we help men with in our coaching process that enables them to stop feeling stuck and start feeling emboldened and positive again about their future.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>no</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the most common way that we find ourselves in this kind of situation, plus what to think and do differently to start moving forward today.]]></video:description>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about a comment we received on one of our videos asking for advice on this exact topic, I go into the different options you have, what we see with the men we coach in this kind of situation and how to get clear about the right path forward for you.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you struggling with rejection from your wife or girlfriend? Do you sometimes convince yourself to not even bother trying to initiate connection and intim...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>315</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Master Rejection In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the critical mindset shift that needs to happen for men to know that the truth of rejection is not a judgement of you, but rather a reflection of the other person's current mental emotional state.]]></video:description>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Master-Rejection-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How Your Emotional Regulation Affects The Intimacy In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about why it's important to understand the difference between men and women in regards to emotional safety and intimacy, plus what to think and do differently to start creating more of the safety that she needs to be able to relax around you and want to be more connected, affectionate and intimate again.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>no</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How Your Emotional Regulation Affects The Intimacy In Your Marriage]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you struggling with the level of intimacy, connection and affection in your relationship? Have you heard your wife say she doesn't feel safe or that she...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3UUJJla6J-Y</video:player_loc>
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			<video:duration>226</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:32:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about why this happens to men in long-term relationships or marriages plus how to think about it differently so that you can start to take action and see whether you can reignite the spark of attraction that used to have you both struggling to keep your hands off each other.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling Like You Have No Control In Your Marriage]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you feeling stuck and hopeless about how to change the relationship that you're in? Do you want to know how to STOP feeling like you have no control in y...]]></video:description>
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			<video:duration>326</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling Like You Have No Control In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:34:16-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the most important skill that the men we coach USE to create change in their relationships and in their life towards the kind of future that they really want.]]></video:description>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Stop-Feeling-Like-You-Have-No-Control-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>no</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Create More Intimacy And Connection With One Simple Change | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:35:35-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about a simple tool I've found that helps men to create the kind of connection that women need to feel safe, loved, and cared about in a way that means she will then want to be around you more, be intimate with you more and trust and respect you more.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/EwcvWz6-DlI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Create-More-Intimacy-And-Connection-With-One-Simple-Change.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Avoid Repetitive Cyclical Arguments In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:31:48-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I explain why we believe that the man in the relationship needs to be secure for these arguments to stop happening.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/WuIjmlrxnXM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Avoid-Repetitive-Cyclical-Arguments-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-become-fascinating-to-your-wife-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Become Fascinating To Your Wife Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:30:24-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode taken from one of our Men's Roundtable group calls, Dan and I discuss the kind of men that your wife IS currently attracted to, how they suffer from you and what to consider to start embodying some of the sexy mojo that those guys have in spades.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/IKSDODw8DvQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Become-Fascinating-To-Your-Wife-Again.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Take Your Own Red Pill Not Someone Else's | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:28:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[in this episode I talk about the red pill cult and what to watch out for, plus some of the good things and some of the bad things that come from taking a perspective that someone else has told you to have verses one that you have honed and developed yourself.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/_S8u6Ug_v2Y</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Take-Your-Own-Red-Pill-Not-Someone-Elses.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-solve-the-problems-in-your-marriage-its-not-what-you-think/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Solve The Problems In Your Marriage (It's Not What You Think) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:27:36-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about a mindset shift that is incredibly powerful in creating a new environment in your relationship which is more relaxed, more fun, more appreciative and respectful and yes leads to more connection and intimacy too.]]></video:description>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Solve-The-Problems-In-Your-Marriage-Its-Not-What-You-Think.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>no</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Solve The Problems In Your Marriage (It's Not What You Think)]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-02-23T16:13:57+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you get confused and frustrated when trying to understand the lack of connection and intimacy with your wife? Do you want to know how to solve the problem...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/k4-eMaFXdWQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Solve-The-Problems-In-Your-Marriage-Its-Not-What-You-Think.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>139</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-fix-emotional-detachment-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Fix Emotional Detachment In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:44:36-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode from one of our group coaching calls, Dan and I talk about leading the emotional connection in your relationship, what men need to learn about leadership, emotions and the energy that you bring to every interaction and why you have more influence than you might think.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/b_rXZyfaRGQ</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-avoid-making-this-mistake-which-turns-off-your-wife-video/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Avoid Making This Mistake Which Turns Off Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:25:49-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about one of the most common ways that this happens in the marriages or the men we coach, plus why it happens, and what to think and do differently to start making a positive impact in your life starting today.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/u-NAMxTL6Q0</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Handle The Lack Of Physical Affection In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:22:56-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about a term many of us men know well which describes the internal battle we have when trying to create the kind of fun, playful, connected and passionate relationship we really want, plus what to thin kand do differently to start changing things starting today.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/UYAAQ3K7LGI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Handle-The-Lack-Of-Physical-Affection-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Help! My Wife is a Self-Help Junkie! (Wise advice for husbands) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[If you are in a relationship with a woman who seems distracted, unavailable and secretive in her own thinking or personal growth, you'll love this topic.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Do You Have This Annoying Unattractive Habit? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-08T17:00:47-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Has your wife told you she's no longer attracted to you? Or has she complained about you being needy, whiny, unreliable or undecisive? Do you ever convince yourself not to initiate intimacy because the fear of being rejected again is just too painful?]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Do-You-Have-This-Annoying-Unattractive-Habit.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do When You've Been Called Needy Or Creepy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-07T17:00:09-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Have you been called needy or creepy or weird by your wife or girlfriend? Did it frustrate and confuse you?]]></video:description>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Manage Your Emotions Better | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you find it hard to manage your emotions? Do you get annoyed, upset &amp; reactive more than you would like especially when dealing with feedback from your wife?]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Procrastinating And Start Changing Your Life | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:39:09-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the number one reason that this happens to men and one simple decision you can make today that will make the rest of the decisions you make this year much more effective, guaranteed!]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/WZdxrwyC5Hs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Stop-Procrastinating-And-Start-Changing-Your-Life.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Kind Of Man Are You When Nobody Is Watching? (&amp; Why It's Important To Know) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:36:43-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I demonstrate how to get in touch with who you really are vs who you try to show other people and explain why it's important to get this concept if you want to be able to create the kind of life and relationships that you really want to experience in your future.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/K3lzkTQ7Wb4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/What-Kind-Of-Man-Are-You-When-Nobody-Is-Watching-Why-Its-Important-To-Know.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Handle Your Wife's Emotions In A Way That Builds Trust &amp; Attraction]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-01-06T11:45:06+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Do you find yourself being overly reactive, defensive and frustrated when facing your wife's emotions? Do you want to learn how to relate with her in a way t...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/xDuKd4IeqNs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Handle-Your-Wifes-Emotions-In-A-Way-That-Builds-Trust-Attraction.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>361</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-the-man-your-wife-wants-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be The Man Your Wife Wants | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:33:20-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this longer episode Tim and I talk about why this happens in marriages and long-term relationships, and give you some practical advice on how to think differently about what's going on and what to do to start building attraction and desire between you again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/tqBKTJOidUs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Be-The-Man-Your-Wife-Wants.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/dr-robert-glover-live-this-wednesday-january-15th-author-no-more-mr-nice-guy/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Dr. Robert Glover LIVE This Wednesday, January 15th (Author: No More Mr. Nice Guy) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:31:27-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[recordings of this session are only available to members of the GG2GM Roundtable and the How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb groups. You can join those with the links above]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/xLAi_hv3iR0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Dr-Robert-Glover-LIVE-This-Wednesday-January-15th-Author-No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-masculine-energy-that-attracts-vs-pushing-away-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Masculine Energy That Attracts Vs Pushing Away | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:29:48-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about one of the most unattractive energies that men can exude and the crazy thing is we already know this - we embody the right energy in every other area of our lives apart from at home with the woman you want to be attracted to you.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/mPVYizgKQ9Q</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/The-Masculine-Energy-That-Attracts-Vs-Pushing-Away.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-only-marriage-advice-that-actually-works-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Only Marriage Advice That Actually Works | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:28:25-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the only marriage advice that actually works and I can talk about this because after 10 years of supporting and coaching men through this situation, there are certain things I have learnt along the way that are so reliable and consistent that you need to know them now before you go watch another confusing "How to save your marriage" video.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/2yYCxzZ0LBc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/The-Only-Marriage-Advice-That-Actually-Works.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-feel-clear-headed-emotionally-strong-and-happy-again/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Feel Clear Headed, Emotionally Strong and Happy Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:27:02-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[We want to help you stop feeling like you're beating your head against a brick wall and start feeling clear headed, emotionally strong and happy again no matter what life is throwing at you right now.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/afsknzJI9dE</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-to-Feel-Clear-Headed-Emotionally-Strong-and-Happy-Again.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-ok-when-your-marriage-is-in-crisis-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be OK When Your Marriage Is In Crisis | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:25:36-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about one of the ways that we help men feel more calm, more peaceful, more confident and more OK when faced with this situation.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/WkFauMux7hs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Be-OK-When-Your-Marriage-Is-In-Crisis.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-fix-the-unhappiness-in-your-marriage-with-confidence-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Fix The Unhappiness In Your Marriage With Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:24:17-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about how we get to this situation in relationships, plus how to fix the problem in a way that also builds your own sense of happiness and confidence at the same time.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/EbtNHduTRV0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Fix-The-Unhappiness-In-Your-Marriage-With-Confidence.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-teach-your-wife-how-you-want-to-be-treated-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Teach Your Wife How You Want To Be Treated | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:22:50-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I share a story from one of our coaching clients about how he turned his disrespectful relationship into one where consideration, positive regard and kindness was the default again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/oZ1tTxt7SzA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Teach-Your-Wife-How-You-Want-To-Be-Treated.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-key-skill-required-for-leading-the-intimacy-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Key Skill Required For Leading The Intimacy In Your Marriage]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-01-26T14:50:48+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you frustrated with the amount of and quality of the intimacy in your marriage? Want to know the key skill that women need men to understand BEFORE they...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qDCVgyNIgxQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/The-Key-Skill-Required-For-Leading-The-Intimacy-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>299</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-cope-when-your-partner-has-an-avoidant-attachment-style-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Cope When Your Partner Has An Avoidant Attachment style | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T01:01:04-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about how we find ourselves in this kind of situation, what it looks like, why it is so difficult and how to think and what to do differently to start improving the connection and closeness again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Xlbf7mdPRRw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Cope-When-Your-Partner-Has-An-Avoidant-Attachment-style.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-see-the-subtle-signs-that-your-wife-wants-sex-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To See The Subtle Signs That Your Wife Wants Sex | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:58:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[n this episode I talk about the ways in which women subtly show that they are open and willing for us to take the lead and initiate sex with them.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/bVj3GsG0iV4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-See-The-Subtle-Signs-That-Your-Wife-Wants-Sex.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-improve-the-emotional-connection-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Improve The Emotional Connection In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:57:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about how we get to this place in our intimate relationships, plus how you have the power to radically change the cycle of connection and disconnection that often happens the longer we're in relationships.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/gWzmLjuzqgY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Improve-The-Emotional-Connection-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-youre-dealing-with-insecurity-or-narcissism-in-your-marriage-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know If You're Dealing With Insecurity Or Narcissism In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:56:11-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about what this looks like in practical day-to-day interactions, plus how to tell if you're interactions are insecurity and shame driven versus something more serious.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Fj00ugEaXKI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Know-If-Youre-Dealing-With-Insecurity-Or-Narcissism-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-not-take-your-wifes-emotions-personally/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Not Take Your Wife's Emotions Personally]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-01-31T16:00:30+00:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you struggling to deal with your partner's changes in moods? Do you find yourself getting frustrated and defensive more than you'd like? Would you like t...]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/MuCU1qF7t1M</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Not-Take-Your-Wifes-Emotions-Personally.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:duration>363</video:duration>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-feeling-trapped-in-an-unhappy-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling Trapped In An Unhappy Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:53:16-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M5DpCVrCd60]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/M5DpCVrCd60</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Stop-Feeling-Trapped-In-An-Unhappy-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-a-man-that-your-wife-wants-to-be-affectionate-with-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be A Man That Your Wife Wants To Be Affectionate With | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:51:56-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I use my horses to explain how we coach men to understand the ways in which we can sabotage the affectionate and intimate connection in our marriages, plus how to think and what to do differently to start changing things today.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/8ap9D1BoDS0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Be-A-Man-That-Your-Wife-Wants-To-Be-Affectionate-With.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-initiate-sex-and-not-fear-rejection-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Initiate Sex And Not Fear Rejection | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T00:50:24-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the most important things a man must know about initiating sex from a place of calm confidence rather than neediness and why that makes a huge difference to her and to the likelihood of saying yes rather than no.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/UkWxjTBXpH0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Initiate-Sex-And-Not-Fear-Rejection.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-the-downward-spiral-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How to Stop the Downward Spiral In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-13T17:00:45-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Do you ever let your thoughts of your "future relationship" piss you off in the present moment? Do you ever project negative thoughts on your lady and then get grumpy and mean just thinking about negative stuff?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/sfjVqDNtBug</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-to-Stop-the-Downward-Spiral-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Men Crave But Women Are Scared To Give (it's not what you think) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-12T17:00:25-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA["Joe" said, "Don't take this the wrong way, but I find you intoxicating. This conversation is something I dream about with my girlfriend and I'm afraid I'll never meet any woman in my generation willing to go there with me."]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-most-important-question-every-man-must-answer/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Most Important Question Every Man Must Answer | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-11T17:00:47-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This is a serious question...seriously.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/UYN-yVhpyD0</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-youre-screwed-if-saving-your-marriage-is-your-only-option/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why You're Screwed If Saving Your Marriage Is Your ONLY Option | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T17:00:45-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When you decide to become more confident, calmer, clearer and grounded in your own sense of value and well-being...there is nothing that needs to "work".]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/dGSqnixhnfY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Why-Youre-Screwed-If-Saving-Your-Marriage-Is-Your-ONLY-Option.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-have-a-life-that-inspires-and-motivates-you-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Have A Life That Inspires And Motivates You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T05:04:07-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about one simple trait that I see in a lot of the men that we coach which directly affects his ability to feel confident, inspired and motivated about himself and his life, plus I give you some simple tips on how to change this habit starting right now.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qVzcdSNsxWc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Have-A-Life-That-Inspires-And-Motivates-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-address-the-lack-of-sex-in-your-marriage-how-not-to-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Address The Lack Of Sex In Your Marriage (&amp; How Not To) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T05:02:12-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the ways in which men approach this issue, why it never works with your woman, plus how to think and what to do differently to start actually improving the intimacy between you starting today.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/MQXYq_IMfAo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Address-The-Lack-Of-Sex-In-Your-Marriage-How-Not-To.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-respond-attractively-when-your-marriage-is-struggling-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Respond Attractively When Your Marriage Is Struggling | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:59:35-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the difference in the way that a good man vs a great man responds to disconnection, distance and a lack of kindness, warmth and affection in his marriage.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/S6gxgSp8f-Q</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Respond-Attractively-When-Your-Marriage-Is-Struggling.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-get-your-wife-to-be-affectionate-again-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Get Your Wife To Be Affectionate Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:56:14-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about why thinking about your relationship in terms of what you're "getting" and how you can "make" her do what you want is a losing mindset that never works when you're trying to create long term sustainable and passionate marriage again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/rHRfEUIq5fw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Get-Your-Wife-To-Be-Affectionate-Again.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-less-affected-by-what-your-wife-says-or-does-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be Less Affected By What Your Wife Says Or Does | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T05:00:54-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about the reason that men find themselves in this kind of situation, plus what to think and do differently to start changing things and creating more of what you do want starting today.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/pG4-9qFKXME</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Be-Less-Affected-By-What-Your-Wife-Says-Or-Does.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-the-state-of-your-marriage-determining-whether-you-can-be-happy-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop The State Of Your Marriage Determining Whether You Can Be Happy | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:57:38-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I share a story from one of my coaching clients where he chose to change the way he thought about and handled his current marriage struggles and ended up creating one of the best days he'd ever had.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/jXeOe9xxSr8</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Stop-The-State-Of-Your-Marriage-Determining-Whether-You-Can-Be-Happy.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-stop-walking-on-eggshells-around-your-wife-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How Stop Walking On Eggshells Around Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:53:20-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about how men are setup to be nervous and deferential to their wives plus how to think and what to do differently to start bringing out that masculine strength and confidence again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Rz-WNVFab_A</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-Stop-Walking-On-Eggshells-Around-Your-Wife.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-turn-the-pain-from-your-failing-marriage-into-fuel-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Turn The Pain From Your Failing Marriage Into Fuel | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:54:53-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about how we can get stuck in hoping for a different reality, hoping the other person was different or that they would change so that we can be happy about the future again and why this is the wrong way to be looking at your life right now.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/i7Rxa9Mpd8o</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Turn-The-Pain-From-Your-Failing-Marriage-Into-Fuel.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-looking-for-the-magic-recipe-to-fix-your-marriage-always-fails-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Looking For The Magic Recipe To Fix Your Marriage Always Fails | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:50:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about why we get this wrong. You can absolutely learn things that seem like magic in terms of the impact that they have on you and your life and relationships.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/dBmHM-Sjj2A</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Why-Looking-For-The-Magic-Recipe-To-Fix-Your-Marriage-Always-Fails.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-increase-your-self-confidence/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Increase Your Self Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:52:01-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about why we find ourselves in this low confidence state, plus how to think about and take decisions differently in the future so that you start to build a confidence that other people can't take away from you ever again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/bpzawPInM18</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Increase-Your-Self-Confidence.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-wife-needs-some-space-from-you-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Wife Needs Some Space From You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:48:21-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about why this happens, what causes it and use an analogy to help you understand what you can do differently to create a more relaxed environment where she can feel safe enough to move back toward you for connection and intimacy again.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZiL8ScI5doc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Why-Your-Wife-Needs-Some-Space-From-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-make-marriage-counselling-effective-avoid-making-things-worse-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Make Marriage Counselling Effective (&amp; Avoid Making Things Worse) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:46:56-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I explain why this happens, what causes it and how to approach it differently so that your chances of success are greatly improved.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/N2Xwi8Du4Rs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Make-Marriage-Counselling-Effective-Avoid-Making-Things-Worse.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-restore-intimacy-in-your-marriage-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Restore Intimacy In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:44:48-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about 3 essential masculine values that immediately start to change the distance and tension that you're currently facing.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/7wsA3fB79FY</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Restore-Intimacy-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-your-marriage-is-saveable-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know If Your Marriage Is Saveable | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:42:01-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about how we get to this place in marriages and long term relationships, plus what needs to happen before you can make the decision to end your current marriage without regrets and know that it's the right choice for you.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qlmFtFBaA_I</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Know-If-Your-Marriage-Is-Saveable.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-has-to-happen-before-you-can-revive-a-sexless-marriage-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Has To Happen Before You Can Revive A Sexless Marriage? | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:43:22-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I talk about "trying" all the tips and techniques that so many articles and videos try to teach you when facing this problem and why they never work to make real sustainable change to the intimacy in your marriage.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/kpQQQnDGfdI</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/What-Has-To-Happen-Before-You-Can-Revive-A-Sexless-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-feeling-taken-advantage-of-video/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling Taken Advantage Of | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-10T04:40:37-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this episode I explain why most men get stuck here and how to think and what to do differently to start changing yourself and changing your situation.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/nafvnjMNEZg</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/How-To-Stop-Feeling-Taken-Advantage-Of.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-maintain-a-satisfying-sexual-relationship/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Maintain A Satisfying Sexual Relationship | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-01T17:00:36-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The coaches disliked the childish practice and wanted the players to have a mature, professional and ABUNDANT mindset about getting into the end zone.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/xqHXG-GseoM</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Maintain-A-Satisfying-Sexual-Relationship.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-the-man-your-wife-fantasizes-about/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be The Man Your Wife Fantasizes About | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-29T17:00:29-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[How does your energy and your intention toward your marriage fluctuate with the distraction of other women? Are you a man who has been diagnosed by women as having “Sex Brain?” What the hell does that even mean anyway?]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-N5RUgnOt-g</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Be-The-Man-Your-Wife-Fantasizes-About.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-being-upset-by-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Being Upset By Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-30T17:00:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, My hope for this message is to challenge and empower you to think differently about feeling offended, insulted, manipulated, controlled or abused.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/WEL3syOu5e4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Stop-Being-Upset-By-Your-Wife.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-making-decisions-you-regret/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Making Decisions You Regret | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-28T17:00:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's my Annual Hummingbird Husband video and article this year, I've added something new. You see, I've always compared the hummingbird to the nervous, jittery and needy energy us men can have when faced with a distant, disconnected and/or angry woman.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/r_WVFq8DZaA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Stop-Making-Decisions-You-Regret.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-and-not-do-when-your-wife-said-she-needs-space/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do And Not Do When Your Wife Said She Needs Space | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-27T17:00:02-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[This article is about the PRESSURE she feels and the distinction between the BAD pressure you must stop and the GOOD pressure you must start.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/gkfWuFyTt38</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-To-Do-And-Not-Do-When-Your-Wife-Said-She-Needs-Space.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-mistake-that-lowers-your-attractiveness-to-your-wife/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Mistake That Lowers Your Attractiveness To Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-26T17:00:51-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, I'm seeing a very clear and amusing trend in many of the men in my community. What is it. INCREASED SEX APPEAL. What's this, you ask? Let me answer that with a short story.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/uwiG10aKp2U</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Mistake-That-Lowers-Your-Attractiveness-To-Your-Wife.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-respond-to-being-called-a-narcissist/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Respond To Being Called A Narcissist | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-25T17:00:10-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I'm talking about that slightly angry, irritated, offended or insulted part of me that just wants to "get back" at someone for pissing me off.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/VE9MacQlLWA</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-I-Know-When-Im-Really-Just-Being-a-Dck.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-have-a-good-day-no-matter-whats-happening-in-the-world/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Have A Good Day No Matter What's Happening In The World | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-24T17:00:25-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[You would teach a very different lesson to the child about their self-esteem, their worthiness and their ABILITY TO BRING THEIR BEST SELF INTO EACH AND EVERY DAY.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/pIHSWBbNELQ</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Have-A-Good-Day-No-Matter-Whats-Happening-In-The-World.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-feel-more-calm-and-secure-in-your-marriage/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Feel More Calm And Secure In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-23T17:00:09-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Deciding to step back, take a deep breath and approach stupid arguments differently will IMMEDIATELY increase your confidence and self-respect.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-4EDhdAHrOg</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Feel-More-Calm-And-Secure-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-to-do-if-you-feel-like-your-wife-hates-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What To Do If You Feel Like Your Wife Hates You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-22T17:00:29-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, If you have never had a moment in your marriage where you felt lectured, nagged, admonished or controlled, then don't read on. This email is not for you.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/yfOzqflBg-4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-To-Do-If-You-Feel-Like-Your-Wife-Hates-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-simple-truth-to-a-happier-day-today/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Simple Truth To A Happier Day Today | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-21T17:00:11-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I spent a lot of my former career worrying about those things on a daily basis, therefore, I can (or my ego can) fancy myself quite the authority on these matters.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/QaGqXcvg5_g</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Simple-Truth-To-A-Happier-Day-Today.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-most-attractive-masculine-men-know-this-in-their-bones/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Most Attractive Masculine Men Know This In Their Bones | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-20T17:00:05-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[A Nigerian proverb says "The roaring lion kills no prey." He doesn't over-react. He speaks less and listens more. He responds calmly and does only what is needed.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Po5H-nlS-2E</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Most-Attractive-Masculine-Men-Know-This-In-Their-Bones.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-worst-time-to-ask-for-sex-and-why-you-nearly-always-get-rejected/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Worst Time To Ask For Sex (And Why You Nearly Always Get Rejected) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-19T17:00:16-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you are pursuing something with an underlying fear, insecurity or dependence on an outcome you are virtually assured of not getting it.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/WrBUhni6kb0</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/The-Worst-Time-To-Ask-For-Sex-And-Why-You-Nearly-Always-Get-Rejected.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-get-what-you-want-especially-if-you-really-really-want-it/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Get What You Want Especially If You Really Really Want It | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-18T17:00:39-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It’s a remote guesthouse set on the side of a cliff above a beautiful Mexican beach. The food is amazing, the weather is perfect and the people are so friendly.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/flrbTb6i0Nk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Get-What-You-Want-Especially-If-You-Really-Really-Want-It.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-break-away-from-the-pain-and-fear-of-rejection/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Break Away From The Pain And Fear Of Rejection | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-17T17:47:07-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[If you only have what I call Competency Based Confidence the only time you will feel confident (aka. calm, cool, collected) is WHEN YOU'RE DOING THOSE THINGS.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/5f9fXRYfzyw</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Break-Away-From-The-Pain-And-Fear-Of-Rejection.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-it-takes-to-have-consistently-high-mojo-confidence/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What It Takes To Have Consistently High Mojo &amp; Confidence | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-16T17:00:32-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I'm talking about a sudden shift in your happiness, sense of purpose and connection with others. It's an blinding flash of calmness and an instantaneous increase in your well being.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ni-cUK3GPSk</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-It-Takes-To-Have-Consistently-High-Mojo-Confidence.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-tell-if-youre-being-too-needy-or-too-distant/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Tell If You're Being Too Needy Or Too Distant | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-16T17:00:04-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[The problem is that it's EASY for us to fall into either of those modes if we're not awake and aware. And nothing good happens when that happens.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/b86zhGPeF8c</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Tell-If-Youre-Being-Too-Needy-Or-Too-Distant.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/you-cant-win-your-wifes-heart-back-without-this/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[You Can't Win Your Wife's Heart Back Without This | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-15T17:00:02-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I was at a men's seminar a few years ago with Alex Allman and Sean Stephenson. These are two very confident masculine men. Alex looks like a typical 6 foot, handsome, ladies man.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/oZVjvNScncs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/You-Cant-Win-Your-Wifes-Heart-Back-Without-This.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-whether-to-stay-or-leave/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know Whether To Stay Or Leave | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-05-14T17:00:09-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[When you try to find your peace, confidence, happiness and manly mojo anywhere OUTSIDE of yourself, you'll wind up being like dog pee.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/3Pn4lLIrBfU</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Know-Whether-To-Stay-Or-Leave.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/what-kind-of-man-are-you-when-nobody-is-watching-why-its-important-to-know/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[What Kind Of Man Are You When Nobody Is Watching? (&amp; Why It's Important To Know) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-20T17:00:15-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[One of the biggest reasons men THINK they are experiencing negativity, sadness or rejection is because they secretly think they need someone to LIKE them.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/K3lzkTQ7Wb4</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/What-Kind-Of-Man-Are-You-When-Nobody-Is-Watching-Why-Its-Important-To-Know.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-be-the-man-your-wife-wants/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be The Man Your Wife Wants | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-21T17:00:58-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Are you a man who wants more in his marriage? You may want more fun. More intimacy. More connection. You may want to feel liberated from uncertainty and the Limbo Land of a marriage that is stuck in neutral, where you feel like roommates not lovers.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/tqBKTJOidUs</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Be-The-Man-Your-Wife-Wants.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-feeling-taken-advantage-of/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop Feeling Taken Advantage Of | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-19T17:00:40-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, This quotation has been following me around for years. It haunts me every now and then with its stark truth and implied personal challenge.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/nafvnjMNEZg</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Stop-Feeling-Taken-Advantage-Of.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-know-if-your-marriage-is-saveable/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Know If Your Marriage Is Saveable | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-16T17:00:00-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[There's a phrase we often use in my community and that's "Take it to the men!" Most guys know what that means but the problem is they don't have ANY men to take things to.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qlmFtFBaA_I</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Know-If-Your-Marriage-Is-Saveable.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/if-your-wife-does-this-your-sex-life-probably-stinks/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[If Your Wife Does This...Your Sex Life Probably Stinks | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-18T17:00:07-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Many wives have been marinated in the toxic thinking that "men only want one thing"...and as soon as they get it, they'll disappear.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/Eii2ot3Blns</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/If-Your-Wife-Does-ThisYour-Sex-Life-Probably-Stinks.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/why-your-wife-needs-some-space-from-you/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Your Wife Needs Some Space From You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-13T17:00:13-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, We expect a reasonable response from someone who is experiencing a serious emotional reaction to something they can't really explain.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZiL8ScI5doc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Why-Your-Wife-Needs-Some-Space-From-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Restore Intimacy In Your Marriage | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-15T17:00:56-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Deciding that you're a man who can have serious conversations without resorting to meanness is an example of a VALUE. It's a guiding MOP (Masculine Operating Principle)]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Restore-Intimacy-In-Your-Marriage.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Make Marriage Counselling Effective (&amp; Avoid Making Things Worse) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-14T17:00:30-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[It's full of ingredients that need to be measured and added in the right sequence. And timing is crucial because if you do the right thing at the wrong time everything goes haywire.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Make-Marriage-Counselling-Effective-Avoid-Making-Things-Worse.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How Stop Walking On Eggshells Around Your Wife | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Many men cringe at all of the drama and don't know how to cope. It seems the safest route is to just follow orders and try to make everyone happy.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Have A Life That Inspires And Motivates You | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-05T17:00:08-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I'm not talking about being uncertain when someone asks, Do you know the surface temperature of the sun? If you don't know something then saying NO is the perfect answer.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/qVzcdSNsxWc</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Have-A-Life-That-Inspires-And-Motivates-You.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Respond Attractively When Your Marriage Is Struggling | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-08T17:00:51-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I give a lot of advice that seems to make no damn sense. Guys are usually raring to do something...anything... when their wife starts acting a little squirrelly and wanting some space and independence.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/S6gxgSp8f-Q</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Respond-Attractively-When-Your-Marriage-Is-Struggling.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Be Less Affected By What Your Wife Says Or Does | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-07T17:00:34-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[I've discovered that a LOT of us have real hard time answering a really simple question. Knowing the answer clearly and concisely can be the difference between a guy wallowing in limbo for years and a guy who quickly and consciously moves forward.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/pG4-9qFKXME</video:player_loc>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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	<url>
		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-stop-the-pain-from-your-marriage-imploding/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Stop The Pain From Your Marriage Imploding | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-03T17:00:42-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, Today I want to talk to you about the power of knowing the truth. Your MIND can play tricks on you when you believe things are true that simply aren't.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Why Looking For The Magic Recipe To Fix Your Marriage Always Fails | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-12T17:00:34-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, How you talk about your marriage is a predictor of your chances for improving it. I was talking to a very distraught man the other day and he told me about his most recent argument with his wife.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Why-Looking-For-The-Magic-Recipe-To-Fix-Your-Marriage-Always-Fails.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Turn The Pain From Your Failing Marriage Into Fuel | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-10T17:00:59-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, when applied from a place of fear, insecurity and inaction, is a totally ineffective approach to improving your situation AND your perception of your situation.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/i7Rxa9Mpd8o</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Turn-The-Pain-From-Your-Failing-Marriage-Into-Fuel.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Get Your Wife To Be Affectionate Again | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-09T17:00:51-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Hey brother, We get a lot of applications every month from men wanting to talk about their relationship issues. Guess what the #1 question is by far?]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Get-Your-Wife-To-Be-Affectionate-Again.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-still-be-confident-when-your-wife-is-closed-off/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Still Be Confident When Your Wife Is Closed Off | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-04T17:00:24-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[In this article i will address the frustration, confusion and sadness of being with someone who finds it uncomfortable being with you.]]></video:description>
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			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Still-Be-Confident-When-Your-Wife-Is-Closed-Off.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/how-to-address-the-lack-of-sex-in-your-marriage-how-not-to/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[How To Address The Lack Of Sex In Your Marriage (&amp; How Not To) | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2025-06-06T17:00:36-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[During my 28 years with my now ex-wife I can't count how many finely crafted arguments I initiated. Because I think I'm smart, logical and persuasive I thought arguing about sex would somehow yield a different result.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/MQXYq_IMfAo</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/How-To-Address-The-Lack-Of-Sex-In-Your-Marriage-How-Not-To.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/steve/">Steve Horsmon &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
	</url>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/quiz-intro/</loc>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Quiz Intro | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-01-29T03:10:43-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.]]></video:description>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
		</video:video>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[Quiz Intro | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2022-01-29T03:10:43-07:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.]]></video:description>
			<video:player_loc>https://www.youtube.com/embed/-BelRO2yEak</video:player_loc>
			<video:thumbnail_loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Confidence-Course-Background-3.jpg</video:thumbnail_loc>
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			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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			<video:title><![CDATA[Sexless Marriage Advice Videos | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
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			<video:description><![CDATA[Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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		<loc>https://code.nbhbackup.com/the-two-year-warning/</loc>
		<video:video>
			<video:title><![CDATA[The Two Year Warning | NBH Backup LLC]]></video:title>
			<video:publication_date>2016-10-07T20:35:28-06:00</video:publication_date>
			<video:description><![CDATA[Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.]]></video:description>
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			<video:family_friendly>yes</video:family_friendly>
			<video:uploader info="https://code.nbhbackup.com/author/dandore/">Dan Dore &#124; Certified Professional Men’s Coach</video:uploader>
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